How can I stay in control and make her want me?

[s m0ney]

Okay! So right now i'm doing excellent.. i'm like 10 yards away from making the touchdown... however i don't want to fumble it this close to scoring...

So i've been hanging out with this girl for the past few months.. nad just within the past week things between us got really intense... like we started hooking up... i met her parents.. i go to her house, we hook up some more, watch tv.. hold hands... basically we act as if we're going out.

However, the problem is this other kid that always wants to hang out with her.. she wants to hang out with him also..

Yesterday, they were supposed to hang out but he said to wait till next week, so while he's delaying i was in there hooking up.

So what i'm getting to is how do I make her want me really bad.. like i know she likes me, and i feel like im in control.. but i want to keep it this way.

Like after last night and our time together.. her mom baked me a pie.. haha

So should i wait a few days to call her... or what? I don't want to get boring... So i was thinking hitting her with a lot of C+f.. so she doesnt get bored.

I'm really close to closing this... and i'm thinking this girl can be great relationship material(HB 9)...

So what I'm asking is... how do I close it and stay in control?

 

[Kaine]

Stay challenging and mysterious.

Have a great time when you are together

Move her emotionally

Then take it away by giving her space

You must let her chase you

Good luck


Kaine

 

[s m0ney]

Originally posted by Kaine
Stay challenging and mysterious.

Have a great time when you are together

Move her emotionally

Then take it away by giving her space

You must let her chase you

Good luck


Kaine

How do i stay challenging and mysterious?

I don't think I have a problem having a great time with her, and I believe i move her emotionally. So by giving her space means i shouldnt call or text her for a few days after we hang out? Like what if she does these to me.. should I respond or not?

Thanks for the advice though.

 

[Kaine]

If you need me to tell you how to stay challenging and mysterious, then it tells me you need to do some reading.

Space means see her and speak to her less often. Let her initiate contact more. Be a little more busier so she can't have your time ALL the time. She can't miss you when she is seeing and hearing from you all the time.


Kaine

 

[Brother_Rapp]

Give her mother something in the wayof a thank you for the food. Tell her mother how you want to go off to college and be somebody(lawyer, doctor, teacher). Tell her mother that you'd like to take her to a concert and you'd like her permission. Then only have two tickets so that guy that's blocking you can't come.If you play it right,the mother will help you get into her duaghter's drawers.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

1. Be mysterious: Don't reveal too much about yourself, don't talk too much about your feelings, don't answer her questions fully. Always leave her wanting to know more. The way to achieve all this is to make your gf talk about HERSELF! You are in a conversation with her, ask her questions, keep her talking, keep her answering. A successful relationship is when a woman does 70% of the talking while the 30% you do makes you more interesting and keeps you mysterious.

 

[s m0ney]

nice thanks guys...