How can I learn talk?

[CoolBlue]

Ok guys, Right now I am a confident person. I get good grades and participate very actively in class. I am not afraid to speak my mind and get people's attention. I have the balls to approach any girl I see.

What I can't do is to have a great conversation! I also end up having a serious/semi serious conversation with a girl whenever I approach them. Then I run out of interesting things to say. Sometimes I think the only reason why the girl continues talking to me is because I'm good looking! Even though I think they're stupid, I envy guys who do or say silly things and make all the girls laugh. So what can I do to improve my conversational skills? How can I practice? Also are there any good C&F links as the bible doesn't have anything about them and I can't type "C&F" in the search page(not enough terms).

 

[Microphone Fiend]

in the dj bible (top right hand screen, click it) there is an entire section on converstaions. READ THEM. They weren't put there to make the site look cool (we'll not entirely) they give valuable information from pro's

 

[CoolBlue]

Believe me, I've read them ALL. Most of them are about opening conversations and stuff that I already can do (asking where she's from, how her family is like, or even get her number). What I wanna know is the cool stuff that'll make a girl want to talk to you, i.e the feeling you get when you see your chatty best friend. Also I want to be so interesting as to capture a whole group's attention. Not too cool to ask about a girl's family when with a whole group of girls right?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Experiance is the key. You can read everything in the world but with out doing it repeatatively then its just not gonna flow how you want it to. At first i was like you, but now i can come up with stuff pretty easily. So just keep practicing and soon youll feel comfortable with it too.

 

[dbot]

If you're having a problem keeping a conversation going, then all you need is a little practice. Learn to throw out questions based on her previous answers. This trick is nothing new, and I was just reading a post in the tips section by Silverwex. His method of "nouning" is great for those having trouble with conversation. Check it out:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33162

 

[Eternal]

If it's the first time talk to her, keep the convo short anyway...Then get the number.