I've been talking to this girl for a while and everytime she comes to my room to sleep over and/or if my roomate is gone I do my best to try to have sex with her. I try to slide my hands down her pants, I'll kiss her and whatnot. Actually a couple times I have gotten close to sex because she'll let me finger her and kiss her chest. I think one of my problems is that everytime she comes over I try, but sometimes I can't help it. Last week she said she was having cramps and she didn't want to do anything, fast foward to this week she's been over everyday and when I try anything she tells me to stop. Do you guys think I should not think about sex a couple times when she visits and just chill or are there any other things I can try to have sex with her?
How can I get her to want to have sex?
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MMA Juan
Don Juan
Well, its about the right time and place, and her feeling right to do it. You seem to have the right time and place covered, but the feeling part is where you need to work on.
You have to play like you want the sex, but dont 'need' the sex. Jus chill with her next time, keep up the light kino however, kissin and caressin is all good. if you tame it down, yet keep up the light yet seductive kino etc, she's going to break before you know it and you'll be ridin away all night.
Good luck bro, and peace.
-MMA Juan
Firstly, seeing her everynight is not on. You need to show her you have other plans and are a busy man. she is not your life but only part of it. to get her to want to have sex with you, you need her to be emotionally ready. us guys just need the physical, females need physical and emotional readiness. when you stop seeing her as often, she'll miss you, and that will build up her emotional side of missin u- thus wantin u. because its clear she knows you dont wana jus 'be friends', when your with her next time layin in bed, don't make the move to have sex. she's knows your very keen, and she's makin you wait because she knows you can. this is the part of the relationship she knows she has control over, and she won't give up that 'control' easily.
You have to play like you want the sex, but dont 'need' the sex. Jus chill with her next time, keep up the light kino however, kissin and caressin is all good. if you tame it down, yet keep up the light yet seductive kino etc, she's going to break before you know it and you'll be ridin away all night.
Good luck bro, and peace.
-MMA Juan
MMA Juan
Don Juan
My mistake, i mean she knows she can...
Are you guys in a relationship? or is she just coming over everyday?
My experience tells me that if a girl comes over everynight and don't put out. it means one of two things. 1. Shes sleeping with sokeone else or 2. she using you. or HEy it could be both!!
This work for me, because i've been through it too... You have to step up and be a MAN. shes not the only girl out there and you have to show that. Next time she comes over, you do your thing again and start making out with her and try to take her pants off. If she says "stop" then stop! Get the F*** up, turn on the lights and go watch TV! act pissed off...bc you should be. Shes leading you on but you never get anywhere.
Now 1 of 2 things are going to happen now. 1. she says shes sorry and puts out for lead you on, or 2. She leaves and you never invite her over again! It seems harsh but you are wasting too much time with her. You are trying to get some a$$ from her but its not worth your time, if thats all she does everytime.
My experience tells me that if a girl comes over everynight and don't put out. it means one of two things. 1. Shes sleeping with sokeone else or 2. she using you. or HEy it could be both!!
This work for me, because i've been through it too... You have to step up and be a MAN. shes not the only girl out there and you have to show that. Next time she comes over, you do your thing again and start making out with her and try to take her pants off. If she says "stop" then stop! Get the F*** up, turn on the lights and go watch TV! act pissed off...bc you should be. Shes leading you on but you never get anywhere.
Now 1 of 2 things are going to happen now. 1. she says shes sorry and puts out for lead you on, or 2. She leaves and you never invite her over again! It seems harsh but you are wasting too much time with her. You are trying to get some a$$ from her but its not worth your time, if thats all she does everytime.
what is your problem you shared the same bed for some days and you are still breaking your head on how to have sex with her men it's unbelievable.well may be you are not acting and making moves in the right way,anyway i think you are not ready that's what she is telling you,you have to do that thing that is expected from you.she won't wait forever they are other guys who will do what she expect.you know what i think you should talk to her about it since you have been sliding your hands in her pants.feel free to say what ever you think but on that same topic.you must get her laid if you really want to,not just sliding your hands in her pants men that's not end it's just the begining so finish up the job and get back to us pls.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
5uave said:
Whatever you do, don't get pissed off, and for krisakes, don't show that you are angry! Talk about giving her validation, and showing your desperation.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
try to lay her... she rejects.. play cool, calm, unfazed... try to lay her... she rejects... keep playing cool, calm and unfazed... try to lay her... she succumbs to your charm and persistance (she will, cause she wants to, dont ask me why she resisting though, it could be a million different things) then *** on her tits.
I've had to do this plenty of times with girls.
The point is, she wants you, obviously... she just has some hang ups for whatever reason, play your cards right and you will come out on top.
But don't get angry, be cool! And your not a chode for her rejecting you. Playful, cool, sexual, charmingly persistant.
I've had to do this plenty of times with girls.
The point is, she wants you, obviously... she just has some hang ups for whatever reason, play your cards right and you will come out on top.
But don't get angry, be cool! And your not a chode for her rejecting you. Playful, cool, sexual, charmingly persistant.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
from what ive heard, chicks are emotional creatures and the best way to deal wit LMR is to acknowledge it, get her real horny and forget what she said before. Say you are trying to stop from jacking off for a month, when u are just walking down the street, its easy as hell, but when u wake up with a raging b0ner and are heading into the shower after seeing Jessica Alba on tv... thats when saying no reaaaaaaally gets hard. Same thing goes for this girl, get her horny and then lets see how easily she says no. Kiss, lick, carress, fondle, rub, and whatever else to get it.
Some guys are saying you shouldnt show emotion but i've heard other sources say they kick girls out of the house and tell em dont come back unless they are done playing games, then 'returning fox' them. So the decision is up to you
Some guys are saying you shouldnt show emotion but i've heard other sources say they kick girls out of the house and tell em dont come back unless they are done playing games, then 'returning fox' them. So the decision is up to you