How can I date without approaching?

[Noinfoprovided]

I am shy and not great looking... How do I tell her about my situations... that I can't talk to her... What should I do? ...

 

[Tictac]

"How can I date without approaching?"

You can't.

So if you want her to have anything to do with you, you have to change your thinking.

 

[Willard]

The only way to do that is with online dating, that's not much fun. Your best bet is to spend a year on learning game, this board is a great place to start. You don't have to be great looking if you know game.

 

[mangotot]

Get into social game rather then cold approach.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

What sites or where can i learn this?

 

[logicallefty]

I agree with Willard, online dating is a great place to start..

The biggest thing is don't go into it with a "I'm going to find my next GF or wife" mentality, or an "I'm going to get laid mentality". Start out with no expectations other than temporary entertainment and learning/growth. Think of each woman as a temporary glass of beer, like this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221281