toot86
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I want some cool ways to create good drama in a relationship or just a girlfriend but is there a limit on how much drama a women can handle?? Or do they just love it soo much that the more the better ..
How can I create DRAMA to not become boring and not the usual drama.. ..
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WestCoaster
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You WANT drama?!!
Holy cow, this is a new one on me! Trust me, you'll get more drama than you ever wanted with any woman. Just wait, drama is coming down the road and it won't always be good.
Be a DJ and sit back and relax because every woman I know creates drama. For God's sake -- don't invite it!
Holy cow, this is a new one on me! Trust me, you'll get more drama than you ever wanted with any woman. Just wait, drama is coming down the road and it won't always be good.
Be a DJ and sit back and relax because every woman I know creates drama. For God's sake -- don't invite it!
Starman
Master Don Juan
hehe a guy creating the drama..this guy must be a masochist
The Bad Ass Canadian
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LOL,
Oh Toot,
You never cease to amaze me.
Oh Toot,
You never cease to amaze me.
Umbra
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No way! Toot has gained a really valuable insight. I'm surprised at the responses he's gotten so far.
Listen, you're absolutely right about creating drama. If you create it, you control it. You keep HER in suspense and confusion, and women love that. It's like a puzzle to them. They always want to try to figure you out. Make it impossible for them. When a man gets boring is when a woman will create her own drama or leave him. It's always better to be the one who creates the drama.
One way that I have been successful in achieving it is the "hot - cold" technique. It is described briefly in Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction." Basically, it involves being emotionally warm and affectionate to a woman and then inexplicably cool and distant.
They will ponder the inner workings of your complicated mind for hours on end and never tire of it. But, as you've already wondered, you must not overdo it. You don't want to her to get pissed off and too frustrated.
Here are some practical examples, which you may have done intuitively:
- Spend a day with her and have a fantastic time, and then don't call for days because you're "busy."
- Be warm and affectionate in person, but very cool and distant on the telephone.
- Be warm and spontaneous and fun, and after you've maintained that high for several weeks, switch to being cool and distant for a short time.
- After going out with her a lot, start hanging out with the boys a lot, and leaving her alone.
The key is creating the drama before she does. Never let a relationship get boring or you invite her to create the drama.
Listen, you're absolutely right about creating drama. If you create it, you control it. You keep HER in suspense and confusion, and women love that. It's like a puzzle to them. They always want to try to figure you out. Make it impossible for them. When a man gets boring is when a woman will create her own drama or leave him. It's always better to be the one who creates the drama.
One way that I have been successful in achieving it is the "hot - cold" technique. It is described briefly in Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction." Basically, it involves being emotionally warm and affectionate to a woman and then inexplicably cool and distant.
They will ponder the inner workings of your complicated mind for hours on end and never tire of it. But, as you've already wondered, you must not overdo it. You don't want to her to get pissed off and too frustrated.
Here are some practical examples, which you may have done intuitively:
- Spend a day with her and have a fantastic time, and then don't call for days because you're "busy."
- Be warm and affectionate in person, but very cool and distant on the telephone.
- Be warm and spontaneous and fun, and after you've maintained that high for several weeks, switch to being cool and distant for a short time.
- After going out with her a lot, start hanging out with the boys a lot, and leaving her alone.
The key is creating the drama before she does. Never let a relationship get boring or you invite her to create the drama.
Starman
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I wouldnt say thats creating "drama" but more like portraying yourself as "busy" and a challenge..
drama may ensure..but you didnt create it..you were just being you..the drama was created in her head..
now you want real drama..start being mean to her, hang out with her friends..and act like you are interested in them, ..if she cooks for you walk out and say you are going to get a burrito...Say you will call/come over..then dont, etc etc
drama may ensure..but you didnt create it..you were just being you..the drama was created in her head..
now you want real drama..start being mean to her, hang out with her friends..and act like you are interested in them, ..if she cooks for you walk out and say you are going to get a burrito...Say you will call/come over..then dont, etc etc
stonedtokki
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Great post umbra. It really is about taking girls on an "emotional rollercoaster". They love the ups and downs and spins and ****, that's why they love tv dramas so much. It sort of is the whole "busy and a challenge" thing, but it's a lot more than that. It makes you more mysterious (b/c the're all confused as to what youre really up to), and it's also the push/pull theory (someone made that up @ ss) So by creating the drama, you'll make them like you even more, and when you get PAST it, they'll feel as if you're bond is even stronger. Just don't make too MUCH drama or else you might break up.
toot86
Senior Don Juan
cool
You know i love these ideas she cooks for you walk out and say you are going to get a burrito...Say you will call/come over AWSOME and also the HOT/COLD but that is just a must..
But what you said about having too much drama might get you breaking up with her .. I doubt it.. Maybe just for a week then come back .. but i think EXTREME DRAMA that would defenintly cause a split would be.. Killing her mom lol or just seeing someone eles and not even caring about your girl for a month.. Just loosing interest with her would be EXTREME DRAMA that would defeniently cause a break up ..
I dont think the simple drama like explained above ... HOT/COLd./ Burrito run etc... would cause a split up i think it would make the relationship stronger!@
You know i love these ideas she cooks for you walk out and say you are going to get a burrito...Say you will call/come over AWSOME and also the HOT/COLD but that is just a must..
But what you said about having too much drama might get you breaking up with her .. I doubt it.. Maybe just for a week then come back .. but i think EXTREME DRAMA that would defenintly cause a split would be.. Killing her mom lol or just seeing someone eles and not even caring about your girl for a month.. Just loosing interest with her would be EXTREME DRAMA that would defeniently cause a break up ..
I dont think the simple drama like explained above ... HOT/COLd./ Burrito run etc... would cause a split up i think it would make the relationship stronger!@
Yeah, you always want a little drama when it comes to women. Women, by nature, are drama queens and they can get easily bored with a relationship that is too stable.
Always keep them guessing. Always keep things moving. Never let the relationship stagnate. And of course, don't over-do the drama!
Always keep them guessing. Always keep things moving. Never let the relationship stagnate. And of course, don't over-do the drama!
Starman
Master Don Juan
funny..the burrito idea was from my old oneitus..she has all these chumps writing poetry to her, being very nice to her, writing nice emails, buying her dinners/presents, buying her cat dinner..
and she gets hung up on a guy she met that walked out on her when she made him a candlelit dinner to get a burrito, he told her "she doesnt turn him on anymore", never returns her calls..etc..and she is obsessing over him now..he isnt even all that good looking.
but then again she is one of those ditzy so. Cal bimbo's..so learn who this stuff might work on , and who it wont.
and she gets hung up on a guy she met that walked out on her when she made him a candlelit dinner to get a burrito, he told her "she doesnt turn him on anymore", never returns her calls..etc..and she is obsessing over him now..he isnt even all that good looking.
but then again she is one of those ditzy so. Cal bimbo's..so learn who this stuff might work on , and who it wont.