first you need to set a goal for yourself, a major purpose in life which is bigger and more exciting than any woman you will ever meet.
and deciding to constantly improve yourself in every single detail you can think of.
as you work on your major goals and constantly improve yourself in every area of life, soon you will create momentum of success and confidence, you will begin to increase self esteem and feel excited about life.
if women approve of you or not becomes meaningless, and you could care less what women think of you anymore
why?
because you discover your own worth, which for YOU is higher than any woman out there... you ar the king of your own life as you should know.
as you get to this level, you will interact with women on a different level, and they will notice. You will perceive the ineraction treating yourself as a man of higher value who deserves quality women.
of course when you get to this place, most women are not are your level anymore, since you have worked hard to become a better man.... you will perceive that most women dont deserve to be put on a pedestal, and you will begin to screen them and challenge them to see if they are good enough to be with you.
now you have power and choice, you chose which woman you want to be in a relationship with because you dont settle for no low class woman.
hope this helped