How Bad Do You Want It...

[ProDJ26]

Guys it's time we get back to being motivated. I mean seriously what the he'll is going on? some of us are lazy (sleeping/video games/Internet) some of us keep making excuses on why we can't make it to the gym. or why we can't go and meet women. "I'll do it tomorrow" "maybe a little later" "ok as a soon as a get _____"

Fvck that quit making excuses
tomorrow is never promised. Personally I'm fvcking disgusted with how all of guys have been lately. seriously what happened? Most of you guys used to live the life you dreamed of. Then you either met a girl, go the job or whatever it is and somewhere down the line you've gotten complacent. Or whats worse is that we put up with constant BS that we willingly let peole get away with (the majority of the time it's our girl) Some of us are at the top of the mountain and have no clue where to go or what to do next. Well let's get back into whatever it was that we were going for in the first place. Tired of living with your parents? THEN GET UP GET A JOB SAVE YOUR MONEY AND MOVE OUT. Tired of being skinny/fat? THEN GET SERIOUS
ABOUT GOING TO THE GYM/YOUR EATING HABITS AND HIT YOUR GOAL. Lady problems? Focus on yourself (unless of course your currently married) and get your sh!t together.

What happened to the men of today guys? I mean really? We have seriously dropped the ball.
Everyday I see women (mainly 17-21) with there own sh!t. They have there own cars, place to stay, career h3ll some of them even have Master degrees!!! Most of us have weight issues, depression, no job, live with parents, in debt, no kind of goals whatsoever and miserable or having a hard time. For those of you making progress keep it up. But for those of us that fall in the above category (or GOD forbid worse off)
it's time we take back our power. it's time we get up off our asses and make a damn difference in our lives!!! The movement is coming guys. And it's only two ways we can go. We can continue to self improve in EVERY aspect of our lives or we can sit and wallow in self pity.

"IF YOU HAVE ENOUGH TIME YO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT YOU HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT"

"If nothing changes nothing changes"

Now let's get back to being motivated kicking @$$ and making LIFE our little Bytch...

:thumbs:

 

[Doctrine Dark]

Yeah, dude. This topic applies to me 100%. I just recently graduated from college, and since then, haven't had any clue what to do. I've done nothing but surf the net, absorb information I'm not even putting to use, eat unhealthy foods, do minimum exercises, watch tv, and never go out except to sit outside for a bit. I'm just not living my life like I should...and it makes me feel like a complete loser.

Nice topic. I think I'll read this quite a few times and realize something needs to change, asap, and to stop prolonging what needs to be done.

 

[5string]

Pro

Please don't take this wrong. Not that I disagree with you here, but what have you done to improve your life and status? Give these guys some examples for motivational purposes.

If they see what others have done, maybe they'll do it for themselves.

 

[ProDJ26]

exactly my point don't take it as me offending you I'm just putting out there of what the MAJORITY of the post I've been about lately. We as MEN in today's world are lacking. I'm no better than anybody else but hey go ask somebody how men of today compare to the men of war times.

I've cut way back on Internet time and video games alot. So rather than see some of you repeat my mistakes I'm giving some advice. We all know our faults, weaknesses and etc but we (myself included) need to step it up. I'm just saying it seems like the majority of women are doing way better than most of us combined...

 

[Alex DeLarge]

It's really tough for me right now man.. When I was in school I had absolutely no problem hitting the gym and meeting women. But now I work 7 days a week from 11 am to 9 pm.. 10 pm on weekends.

It's hard to get to the gym, but on the weekends I can at least join some friends for some drinks and have some night game going for me. But honestly, I know I'm not going to meet anyone special at a bar, just an easy lay.

 

[PDubb75]

Not gonna lie. When I saw the title of this thread, I thought I was about to read about a new pick-up line that would get me smacked in the face.

Pleasantly surprised. You are spot on here, and only being here about 5 months or so, I'm already amazed at some of the negativity on here, stemmed from a lot of what you just mentioned.

I have a good, steady job. I am in the best shape of my life, and have gotten in the habit of getting to the gym 5 days/week. I have a decent group of friends (although the group willing to go "out" is dwindling). I own a luxury brand car that I absolutely love. I live with a close friend in a nice townhouse in a decent area near my favorite city in the world. Due to a 6.5 year relationship that ended in November 2010, this is really my first chance to be "single" and I'm loving it. In other words, the major aspects of my life are pretty much covered to this point. And they were earned, not given to me as a handout.

However, I still get somewhat frustrated in the fact that I'm not getting girls as often as I would like. It does get to me a bit when I see all this "improve yourself first and girls will fall into place", as I feel I am at a good place elsewhere.

The difference is, I go out and try things. I do a lot of approaches to work on social skills, confidence, etc. While I am not yet where I would like to be, I know I am improving. I try to use experiences to answer my questions, as opposed to the forum, or other PUA material.

I hope a lot of people read your post and take it to heart. Maybe some people need a post like that to kick start everything. I know one of Pook's threads in the DJ Bible did that for me.

 

[ProDJ26]

and thats all it takes PDubb

I know some close friends of mine who always complain about not having this or not having that. And yes there is negativity everywhere but I do my best to filter it out. And I know people who say "well I ger the the car job whatever then I'll get the girl" and your post just proves just because you have all those things doesnt mean you can still get the girl. H3ll I guarantee there's somebody that has it all including the girl be is miserable or has nothing and has no problem getting tail....

 

[ProDJ26]

Damn I right some good material haha