How, and when, do you disclose?

DAMN

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Hey, I've come to this site, learned a hell of alot of things, put them to good usage and am hungry for more knowlege. I Have done this once before with a real **** up of a girl, for the sake of my own self confidence, and she accepted it, then I dumped her. (evil I know, but whatever)

I have hep c, which isnt really a conventional std, you cannot really get it through sex, even unprotected sex (unless its anal). Married couples have a rate of giving it to one another of 4%, and that is thought to be both of them being exposed to the same source, rather than giving it to one another. The only way you can really get it is by direct blood transfer. So, no sharing razorblades or toothbrushes, which you shouldnt do anyway...


I broke this fact to the dumpy girl straight up, and she lapped it up cause for her, im quite the catch, and her sister had it so she knows all about the way it has to be transmitted.

Now I have a knockout girl, like KNOCKOUT, and she really likes spending time with me, and me with her, and things havent gotten to the point where I feel I should be thinking about telling her yet, so I was wondering what you guys think I should do for this situation. It isnt as hopeless as say having aids would be for most people, but it still is like being tainted. It took me a very long time to get over it and now I dont want all this work I have done to improve myself to be in vain for me to break this subject horribly, with a girl that I want to score with, and then have to deal with the fallout from that.

I havent the slightest clue as to how I should break this to her, the other chick I couldnt have cared less how she felt about it, I just was with her to see if I could actually bring myself to tell a chick that has interest in me that I have it and see if her impression of me changed... which it didnt, but she was like a 2-3 out of 10 and im like maybe 6-7, so I could have told her that I have the plague, aids, communicable cancer, leprosy and even the clap and I dont think she would have thought of me any different.

A buddy of mine tells me not to even tell them... I feel like that is really wrong if im gonna **** them, and I want them to have any part in my life afterwards, for if I tell them after... Yeah...

any thoughts would be appreciated. :confused:
 

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I wouldn't worry about it either way. If you know it is not easily contracted through sex, then why worry. If it is your guilt/morals, just explain it to her that there are different hepatitis infections, and yours is not considered an STD. If she is educated, smart, etc. she will see it for what it is. If she is interested, she will do her own research, and not let it become an obstacle.

http://www.medicinenet.com/hepatitis_c/page3.htm
 

rushing dude 123

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dude ill explain the same way u did to us, to be honest how would u want to b treated. Lying about somethings like how ur last broke up went or even ur age, but something that is going to affect the person directly physcially possibly i feel she has the right to know.
 
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