Man would this sh*t piss you off or what, so me and my girlfriend go out to a club, and I have Tonsilitis, I only go because she wants too. Then we get to the club, I take her with my friends. The plan was just to stay for about an hour because I was really sick and had to get up early the next morning, and because they had study to do. Anyways we get there and talk for about 20 minutes, then we play a game of pool. They then want to dance and I dont, cause I am really sick, so she goes off and dances with them anyways. They just leave me sitting on a lounge by myself looking like a fool. After about 45 minutes I am thinking what the **** is happening so I go and look for them. I cant find them ANYWHERE on the dance floor. I then go and sit down for about 20 more minutes (remember we were only staying at the club for an hour). The reason I couldnt find them on the dancefloor was because they went to a couch by themselves, my girlfriend and two friends, leaving me still sitting on my couch by myself. Then I get a call, they are outside the club and leaving, OMG seriously, WTF kind of a girlfriend is that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Not a very good or caring one. Why are you catering to her so much? You shouldn't have even been there. You were sick and should have stayed home. If for some reason she can't go to the club without you, then she should have stayed home with you. Of course, if she had went to the club while you were home sick she'd still be a bytch. Obviously she's only looking out for herself. You should only be looking out for you. That includes finding a better girlfriend.
ex fuc*ing sactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well it is unfolding as we speak, she is at my house crying her eyes out to my mum cause I just dumped her ass, she took my car keys and wont let me leave, seriously she is just grabbing on to me and not letting go. But this is it, I tell her this ALL the time, and she just doesnt give a fu*k, seriously EXACTLY what I tell her, only looking out for herself, I really do think now girls are disrespectful ALL OF THEM!! Man, FU*K them, I am better off without them, fu*k I have to get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't believe that all girls are like that. I've known some girls that weren't even my girlfriend that would drop everything, make soup, then come feed it to me when they know i'm sick. Then she'd clean my room while I was sleeping. That's the type of girl you always keep around. It is a good idea to avoid them for a while though.
For some reason I get the hilarious picture of you typing here while this girl is holding on to your arm and crying. If this is all going on as we speak, how the hell are you posting here?
For some reason I get the hilarious picture of you typing here while this girl is holding on to your arm and crying. If this is all going on as we speak, how the hell are you posting here?
I think by going to the club, you already put the ball at her court. You're obviously sick, so why go? If she insist on you going, then obviously she cares little about you but more about herself having fun. At the same time, I think that you really want to go, because it is a club environment, and you fear her being hit on by other men. But I do see negative signs on how she ditches you, maybe you been trying to hard, and she doesn't need much efforts? She may not be a bad catch, but you gotta make sure you are a GOOD catch first.
I am here typing because she is in my mums room with her crying. She didnt insist we go to a club, I went with her and some of my friends to see 2 fast 2 furious and they were going to a club nearby after, I have been with her for a while so it is not like I am just trying to please her, but sometimes it is good not to just look out for yourself, then when I do she just looks out for herself. And if I didnt go to the club she wasnt gonna go cause it was with my friends so I took her, but just to get it slapped in my face!!! 
Batman407
Don Juan
Quick already answered for me... damn youz!!!
She is only looking out for herself... you should already be doing the same.. you should have from the beginning until she earned it.
I also get the feeling that she's spoiled, not only because of how she disrespected you at the club, but how she's acting right now... crying hysterically, sucking up to your mom and wtf... stealing your keys so you won't leave?!?
In the least, you need to let her know that you will not tolerate disrespect for your time and health. Perform a takeaway to punish her. And I don't know how tight your mom is with her, or how your mom is generally... but most mom's are dead-wrong when it comes to handling women. They're women themselves and just want you to be a good husband.
She is only looking out for herself... you should already be doing the same.. you should have from the beginning until she earned it.
I also get the feeling that she's spoiled, not only because of how she disrespected you at the club, but how she's acting right now... crying hysterically, sucking up to your mom and wtf... stealing your keys so you won't leave?!?
In the least, you need to let her know that you will not tolerate disrespect for your time and health. Perform a takeaway to punish her. And I don't know how tight your mom is with her, or how your mom is generally... but most mom's are dead-wrong when it comes to handling women. They're women themselves and just want you to be a good husband.
Starman
Master Don Juan
Dude , That is VERY disrespectful.
You should ask her WHat the hell she was thinking..dragging you out when your sick as hell..then leaving you by yourself?
See what she says..give her hell, dont budge because of her crying..take a little break for her to think about what she's done..and if you think she is truely sorry and sincere about her apologies..
TELL HER "I will give you another chance! but no MORE!"
Take the ball back!
You should ask her WHat the hell she was thinking..dragging you out when your sick as hell..then leaving you by yourself?
See what she says..give her hell, dont budge because of her crying..take a little break for her to think about what she's done..and if you think she is truely sorry and sincere about her apologies..
TELL HER "I will give you another chance! but no MORE!"
Take the ball back!
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Hmm interesting to say the least.
However, give the girl a chance and make her make it up to you. Yeah, she left you, don't get all insecure and break up with her for something so futile.
M.A.C.
However, give the girl a chance and make her make it up to you. Yeah, she left you, don't get all insecure and break up with her for something so futile.
M.A.C.
Starman
Master Don Juan
Matt
I was thinking he would come off as whiny, clingy and needy if he is pissed about that..
but that was really B.S. that he was sick..and he should EMPHASIZE he is mad because he is sick and she dragged him out..not solely because She ditched him...
I was thinking he would come off as whiny, clingy and needy if he is pissed about that..
but that was really B.S. that he was sick..and he should EMPHASIZE he is mad because he is sick and she dragged him out..not solely because She ditched him...
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
Star,
I agree it was a bad decision on her part. To break up with her is a bit harsh. I would of made her do some dirty sex act to make up for it...but that is just me.
M.A.C.
I agree it was a bad decision on her part. To break up with her is a bit harsh. I would of made her do some dirty sex act to make up for it...but that is just me.
M.A.C.
I sincerely doubt he broke up with her because of this incident alone. From what I can gather, there's been a pattern of behavior that emphasized these same qualities from her and last night was just the breaking point. I think he also said that he told her about it in the past.
At least I hope that's the case.
For me, the most important time to judge a woman's character is when i'm down for some reason. If i'm up and funny and making her feel good, of course she's going to stay with me, no matter what kind of girl she is. What shows if she's selfish and if she's long term relationship material is how she acts when everything's not so good. If I'm sick and she's worried about how that's going to affect her plans, then she's gone.
At least I hope that's the case.
For me, the most important time to judge a woman's character is when i'm down for some reason. If i'm up and funny and making her feel good, of course she's going to stay with me, no matter what kind of girl she is. What shows if she's selfish and if she's long term relationship material is how she acts when everything's not so good. If I'm sick and she's worried about how that's going to affect her plans, then she's gone.
Quick EXACTLY, and yeah you got it batman, she is spoilt. The thing is she REALLY didnt think she did anything wrong. WTF!!! Anyways she stayed here last night until 500am crying, and then went to sleep HERE!! Then she faked some sh*t that she couldnt breath, although I felt pretty bad, now she is still in bed but has got up to talk to me about 50 times, although I just keep telling her she shows me no respect and that she only looks out for herself, just to make her cry more and more and more, somehow it is rewarding watching her cry so much, I know that is mean, but that is just the way I feel. Anyways this girl has been given MANY chances. However other than when she does things like this occassionally she is great. How do you know when, enough is enough?
RazzleDazzle
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That's tough to say. When do you throw in the towel? No two people are going to get along perfectly so you have to expect fights. The key here is, has she changed her ways for you and you her? My philosophy teacher once told me that in every relationship there is a victim and an assassin. Sometimes the positions switch depending on situations but in every relationship you have one and the other. No two assassins or two victims will be together for long. (like a day) So you have to ask yourself are you the assassin or the victim?
Now if she hasn't changed a wink for you even though you've talked to her about her ways then that's it. Throw in the towel and move on. She obviously cares about you (hince the crying) but so much of it is very disgusting. Women cheat when they use tears, but when they keep crying that means they realize that it's their last chance and they can't believe it's not working.
Now if she hasn't changed a wink for you even though you've talked to her about her ways then that's it. Throw in the towel and move on. She obviously cares about you (hince the crying) but so much of it is very disgusting. Women cheat when they use tears, but when they keep crying that means they realize that it's their last chance and they can't believe it's not working.
Razzle, yes she has changed her ways MANY of times, but the thing is she has to do it about a hundred times, and me constantly on her back for her to change, otherwise she wont. She doesnt see obvious things she should not do that any person should know not to do. So I am in quiet the predicament............
Rhetorical
Don Juan
Well next time you encounter the same behaviour, lack of concern or whatsoever, give her a lecture. Set up a week of date where she'll have to pay for every bill & indulge ya. In other words, she's gonna be your *****.