Hottie @ Work

[bmjc]

Heres the deal... i started working at this new store that opened up recently. And the first person to say hi was this girl. she too sexy! not too sexy for me in general, but shes too sexy for me not to hook up with her. anyway, shell walk by for no reason at all just to say hi ands smile.. i know shes just trying to feel me out at the moment.. its too early to start my game. i have 3 questions.. im wondering if anybody has any tips in general. neg hits good at this point? what should i look for about signs of approval? bad boy or nice guy type situation? Any tips or advice, from experience would be kool too.. thanx

 

[tsmith2334]

if your ever closing with each other, ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat after work

 

[MooseGod]

sounds like she kinda digs you... I'd keep her laughing and be flirty the whole time you work around her, and then strike when the iron is hot.

 

[CraigMack]

Getting a crush on a girl at work is not a good idea. As they say where there is smoke you might get fired.

Just think with your larger brain for a moment. You make a play for her just because she smiled at you and got you all riled up like a school boy chump.

She was only smiling because at work it's a friendly atmosphere and she thought she could relax her guard for just a moment. Then blam some geek hits on her.

Now she has to reject him and it messes up the work environment. Now she has to look at his dumb behind everday she goes to work.

Put yourself inside their heads for a change. Women know that only idiots fool around at work. Even though some do succumb to this stupidity, they do mostly use their heads instead of thinking with the wrong brains (pubic areas).

It amazes me how many men cannot control their urges in a professional environment.

I read about some kind of psychological thing happens when you see someone 8 hours or often a day. You develop a liking for them. Then the stupidity sets in and boom.

Workforce mayhem.

 

[Serialized3]

Heres the deal... i started working at this new store that opened up recently. And the first person to say hi was this girl. she too sexy! not too sexy for me in general, but shes too sexy for me not to hook up with her.

I like your attitude

anyway, shell walk by for no reason at all just to say hi ands smile.. i know shes just trying to feel me out at the moment.. its too early to start my game.

Yep, I'd suggest right now just being friendly, playing it off like her advances or whatever you want to call them aren't making you particularly interested

i have 3 questions.. im wondering if anybody has any tips in general. neg hits good at this point?

I wouldn't, as you said she is hot, but not too hot. I'd definately qualify her though (ie "Are you a nice girl? I only like to hang out with nice girls...")

what should i look for about signs of approval?

From my experience, at work, I'd interpret signs of interest as:

-If she comes around your department for no real purpose except to talk to you, and stays too long. That's pretty obvious.
-Laughs at your dumb jokes
-Touches you
- Most of all - if she just gives you those eyes where you can tell she likes you. That was always my "Go" signal

bad boy or nice guy type situation?

I suppose it depends on the girl, but I think it's always better off to be mysterious, and the "bad boy" type (but only if it is consistent with your personality)

Any tips or advice, from experience would be kool too.. thanx

Well, if you're in a career or something like that, "don't get laid where you get paid" is a considerable mantra. However, it sounds like this is just a job for you, so I say "mack away". I survived at my last job (that I didn't really give a shit about) for 1.5 years, dating a multitude of girls from my job, without getting fired. However, there were a few departments where I wasn't exactly welcome...