Hot Girl Finally - ADVICE NEEDED!!

[Don Giovanni]

Hey guys,

Some advice needed. I will be quick- I have finally been successful with a hot girl. I am in Costa Rica right now studying in an exchange program for the summer. Quick background: I was learning to dance one evening with a few of my friends and the hot girl sees me having a ton of fun. I saw that she gave good signs, so at a party later I flirted with her and got to make out with her. Here is my problem: the customs here are different than those in the US. For the three times that we have been together and made out I had tried to touch her ass. It seems that it is a big taboo her for girls to have their ass touched like that- they get labelled. Well, besides the language barrier being a problem, I now have this. So, what now? How should I proceed from here? What I am really asking is whether I have a problem on my hand and how I should deal with it if i do. I know I still have her, but I can feel her interest dropping. She was really touchy the first night we got together, but after my "blunders" i feel like she has become less so. Anyone familiar with the culture here will be a great help. I feel like I have been disarmed of techniques I have always used in the past like C and F. Maybe Im being too touchy? Lay off on that? She is a virgin by the way, so maybe she feels threatened.

ADVICE NEEDED. How should I proceed?

 

[Reto]

Don't know if I can help, but I think chicks are chicks. But, I've never dated any chicks in a foreigh country.

Some are slower than others. Just proceed slow concentrating on the interest level. Keep it high. If sheo nly wants to go so far, then only go so far.

He!!, try two steps forward, one back. See what happens.

When I was in the service, one of my room mates was dating a Korean chick. It took him nearly a year to get the Psy. Eventually, things didnlt work out and he broke it off. Since he had de-flowered her, she and her BROTHERS wanted to kill him.

Just be careful and go slow...

 

[trace_man]

PURA VIDA!! Ticos can be very personal people. You wont be able to break her cultural traditions. They are die hard catholics down there and it is absurd to expect much more after three times. If you persist you will progress, but dont be fast at all, just it all slowly.

 

[Oxide]

make her want you

is she ok with just being nude and u not touching her? take a feather and play with her. she'll go wild.

 

[blasmo]

What part of CR are you? I was there like 5 times, on business. I am from panama. CR girls are jewels. She knows that soon you will be leaving and the chances of you staying with her will be very slim. PM me and i could give you some translations and other help for CR.

 

[bludb0i]

when dealing with girls with less experience thing you got slow down. sometimes u have to help them feel comfortable and not let them know you want a peice of ass. with the foreign thing i don't have no advice.