Hooked up after LJBF'ed

[hungnan]

A buddy of mine said that he got LJBF'ed by some chick about a month ago. Then she came back yesterday and said that she reconsidered and would like to try to pursue something.

I thought chicks never do that stuff. Once they say no, it means no. Or is this chick some weirdo my friend should be watching out for?

 

[Miles Davis]

She might have started to crave the attention that your friend was giving her, which first led to the LJBF line. I suggest your friend go tag some new ass, I never go back to chicks that have nexted me, as I've nexted them as well.

 

[MDgood]

I've seen that happen, too, but usually it takes much more than a month for the chick to reconsider... we're talking like years here. Unless she was playing a game, at this rate if he was nexted once, he'll be nexted twice. Bang her and dump her.

 

[chlywly]

This isn't always a horrible thing he can still totaly DJ her, he just has to do it right... If she reconsidered there is a reason for it, and not necessarily something negative I would go for it but for sure have others on the side.

 

[Ronin I]

It's hard to say exactly what happened. Maybe she LJBFed him because there was still another guy in the picture but now (for whatever reason) he's gone.

So now she's actually ready to start something else with somebody new. Tell him to proceed with caution and make her earn her time with him.

 

[dontmindme]

She was probably attracted to him, but she LJBF'ed him for some reason that made sense to her at the time.

 

[Kodiac]

Yeah, maybe she was giving another guy a chance and he blew it.
Maybe she had PMS and she blew it.
Maybe it was the weather, the season or whatever...

I don't think she deserves another chance.
But hey, he could always use her for his benefit

 

[OddTech]

Maybe your friend did the "DJ tactic." Did he cut all contacts and moved on? If so, she misses his presence and his attention.

Perhaps this is one of those rare exception where we see somebody comes back from an LJBF. As someone else already said, tell him to be cautious and be prepared for more games.