Holy **** shes cheating on me!

Dole

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Okay I think this mom I am seeing is cheating on me.
I dont know where to start. First I want to say that I am blitzed out of my mind and this was the motive to drive by her house tonight.
Ok so she told me to call her later tonight because I had a final. So after the final around 9:15 I call her and she doesn't pick up. She usually calls back but on some rare occasions she doesn't. So my finals are done and I am calling some homies to blaze with them. So we blaze and everything its around 11 now and she still hasn't called me back. I was very curious and wasn't sure if she is just playing games, is out, or at home sleeping. So I wanted to find out for sure what her answer would be the next day why she hasn't called me back. So I am high out of my mind and decide to drive by her street. So first time i drove by her car is in front of her house. I turn around and go back one time then I see this SUV across the street from her house. Now this thing looked like a cayenne so I was like, shiet what would something like that be doing around this neighboorhood. I turn around and I drive down to street that its a SUV model that I will call X. It just happens so that her baby's father drive's an X model. Now the problem is I dont know if the guy drives the newer or the older version of the X model. Now she did mention that the father got a new truck and she was jealous of him but she never said anything that he sold the X model suv. In my mind he would have sold the model X to buy the lincoln because lets just say he don't have a wealthy career. Also we where talking about the new model X when she mentioned what the babys father drove so I am not quiet sure. Anyways I am going to find out if the drove the new model X or the older one from her. ( I also have never seen this car by her house )
Here are some reasons why she is cheating on me ( other then the matching car type):
1) She has done this to me before once or twice and calls me back around 12 and sounding tired saying she just woke up or the other time that there was a big family fight with her cousins that came over and everything
2) She wanted to play the game "What if" so I did and she said "what if I told you I was sleeping with someone else what would you do?" so I hung up on her told her only cheating ppl ask questions like that or the ones that have intentions of doing so. She said she just wanted to see my reaction
3)She had her baby's father drivers license ID in her wallet, she changed back her wallet picture to her baby son baby father and of her together.
4)She talked a lot about him one day and then following few days and told her that she needs to stop that because its making me think that her mind is somewhere else blah blah...
5) There are some other ones that I can think of but I dont really know how exactly to explain.


Yeah I feel like ****. I am going to find out for sure generation car drove and what color. If it doesn't match then wait for the next time she does this and drive by her house to be sure.
 

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I don't mean to kick you when you are down, but you are being a giant afc. You took back a woman who cheated before, yet you are surprised when she does it again? Forget the b!tch and find another.
 

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^^^ Yep, that's it dude.

You've got this evidence before you, which is circumstantial, but kinda damning. Then throw in that she's cheated before?

Ugh.

Kick this trick to the curb.
 

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I dont know if she has cheated before but I am assuming that she has.
 
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If she's cheated on you before or you're assuming she's cheating on your right now, leave her. You deserve better than that.
 

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You let her get away with this before. Why would she not do it again?

Leave her.
 

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Dole said:
I dont know if she has cheated before but I am assuming that she has.
It doesn't matter if she actually did or not at this point because you think she did and you will never forget that, it basically has the exact same effect.
 

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So I went back to confirm and yes it was him.
 

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so i guess now we get the full story...

let me guess: will you try to talk this out with her?
 

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
If you think she's cheating on you, she probably is. When you get a guy instinct from somebody, it usually turns out to be true. Dump her, leave her, whatever. Find someone new, someone worth having. Dont take this crap.
 

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Breasts! I like 'em. Most women have 'em, too. So, why get stuck on one set when there are a pair per each woman out in the world.

You are SOOOOOOOOOOOO co-dependent. It's like you think that whatever she does makes you feel those crappy feelings. Sh!t man, you've got to stop the madness, and realize that she has a free will and is free to do what she wants and when she wants to do it. You can't control her, and when you try to, you're done. It's over sooner than you think.

Good luck, Bro!
 

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drak_ool said:
so i guess now we get the full story...

let me guess: will you try to talk this out with her?
She sent me a text message this morning saying the following:
her:
Sorry babe. I fell asleep really early last night. I was so tired. I woke up at like 530 and hit the gym. I miss you! =)
me:
You are dumped. Don't EVER talk to me again.

She has called me atleast 15 times thus far and sent me 10 text messages asking why, that i am acting like a child, i need to tell her why i am dumping her, to be grown up. I know that she is playing dumb and she knows why I dumped her, but she just wants to make sure that the reason is me catching her cheating.

I have not answered to any of her phone calls nor have I replied to any of her text messages, I dont plan on doing so either.

Overall this has been a great learning experience for me. Learned a lot.
 

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You should have had the balls to tell her to her face and not in a text message.

Don't be such a pvssy.

You should have controlled the frame with this chick from the beginning. She played you the way she knew she could, and you just took it.

I know because I used to be just like you.
 

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ouch. sorry man. consider it a life lesson. baby mama/baby daddy stuff is tricky...unless you KNOW they hate each other. then its a whole 'nother kind of tricky.
 

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Warrior74 said:
ouch. sorry man. consider it a life lesson. baby mama/baby daddy stuff is tricky...unless you KNOW they hate each other. then its a whole 'nother kind of tricky.
Maybe make it a point not to take care of other people's DNA from now on because if it would have worked out, that's what you would have done.
 

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Mavrick said:
Maybe make it a point not to take care of other people's DNA from now on because if it would have worked out, that's what you would have done.
lol. depends on your definition of 'worked out'. at a certian age bracket and in certian demographics its hard to find women who don't have children. You have to know what you want if you mess with women with kids.
 
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