Holy crap......help me out!

[Meatfrog]

I've been going out with this girl for about 3 weeks now. I've been moving pretty slow with this girl, though because she has some guy problems in the past. She's definitely a breezy (Hot babe) and for the longest time...I've been acting very different. I've been doing this whole ****Y and Funny ish and for the longest time she always thought I was a player....That is...until yesterday.

We got a little drunk and I told her I wanted to kiss her. We started kissing...and then she was like

oh my god!

HA HA HA.

You............you never kissed a girl before!



So I tried to play it off...I told her that I was just teasing her and that women are all different and I wasn't sure what kind of kiss she liked. Then, she was all like...Do you want to kiss me?

I moved in again....but I quickly backed away.
She tried to kiss me again...but I backed away again.

I did this because I was afraid she'd laugh at me again.

I made an excuse and said....I didn't want to take advantage of her because she was drunk. That was it.

I really wanted to kiss her and not back off, but I didn't like how she laughed at my pathetic kissing skills.

How do I get out of this one guys?

 

[Skel]

ask your mom if you can practice on her?

 

[PeeGee]

learn to kiss?

 

[Alen-Delon]

What an AFC, even though you are no good at kissing you shouldnt backed away, what kind of shyt is that biatchhhh. anyway only way to learn how kiss to actualy kiss and practice she was perfect opportunity but your alofnes wouldnt alow you to do so.

 

[Meatfrog]

all right so I'm an AFC

The point is......how do I get out of this situation without making a fool out of myself!

 

[Alen-Delon]

dude dont worry too much its not end of the world, act like nothing happend when you see these chick again. hopefully you will have another opprtunity with her and if you do dont puss out on it, or like in American Pie find dorky chick to practice some of the things you need to improve and maybe you ll fall in love. who knows just dont worry about it too much keep it cool and keep yo head up

Peace

 

[Meatfrog]

Wait a second....

are you implying that I should ask HER to teach me how to kiss?

Should I ask her to teach me how to please her?


or is that what an AFC would do?

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Dude, you're 22 and you don't know how to kiss.

You best start asking ANY girl to teach you how.

Go back to this bytch, ask her for help, and I'm sure she'd be happy to teach you how to kiss like a stud.

 

[Grandmaster Sexay]

A girl can only teach you how to kiss. Get back to her and ask for help. Or if you happen to know any good female friends, you could ask them and I am sure they won't mind teaching you. My old mate did that. I know this will be a bit embrassing and they may not accept it but it will save you further embrassment in future.

Remember what Tom Cruise used to do. He used to run home from school early when he knew his sister friends would be there. They went into the bathroom, locked themselves in and practise a 'French Kiss' and he nearly pass out! . Practise makes perfect.

 

[Skel]

damn I should have thought of that. Ask your hot friends to practice. Damn take me back to the future!!

 

[xblitz44x]

Just relax. It's no big deal. The problem that lies beneath the surface is that you gave a shyt WHAT she thought of your kissing ability. Obviously it wasn't a huge deal to her because she wanted to kiss you again.

I would cut the games and just let everything flow. Don't be afraid to kiss her again because she WANTS to kiss you. Every kiss will be better than the last one. The more you try to ****y/funny your way out of it, the more insecure about it you will seem.

As for the actual kiss, be as slow as you want. Be as soft as you want. You can't be too slow and too soft with your kissing, no such thing. EVENTUALLY, not immediately, you can let your tongue slide out softly and just a little bit against her lips. I wouldn't even bother putting your tongue in her mouth. Not yet until you're comfortable enough.

Fvck the games. Man-up and kiss her again.

-Jim

 

[Grandmaster Sexay]

Basically just go with the flow on your parner lips. Be soft and fairly slow and remember to breath through your nose not your mouth!. Tilt your head sideways a bit to allow breathing to circulate. And just enjoy!. You will eventally get better at it. My first kiss was dreadful but I just kept practising until now.

 

[AlwaysLearning]

Dude just go on this site and find out how to kiss properly.

Then try to get a second chance to kiss her again. If she kissed you once she'll kiss you again. From there just be confident and try your best. If she bad mouths you again tell her you've never had a problem with other chicks. Don't look embarassed and ashamed in front of her, and don't let her get to you.

-AL

 

[blitzin']

Kissing's not that hard, it should be intuitive and have feeling behind it. I went out with this girl once, who kissed like a robot, it was like a repetitious program, I tried to teach her, and she told me she'd never had any complaints, she just didn't get it...boring!
If you need to, look at the site. Then get it down so it doesn't feel rehearsed. Good luck

 

[Mercenary]

on a positive note....

at least she didn't want to have sex

 

[blitzin']

Originally posted by Mercenary
on a positive note....

at least she didn't want to have sex

Ha ha ha... good one.

I just thought of something else to add. Maybe you aren't a bad kisser. Maybe she's just drunk. Or maybe she is like the girl I went out with and doesn't know how to kiss, but thinks she does. Eh, just think of the problem in a different way and it suddenly isn't your problem, but hers!

 

[Samim]

The point is......how do I get out of this situation without making a fool out of myself!

This is happening in real time; right now?!

Look, the situation is over. And you already made a fool of yourself.

Read the posts above, and find a girl who's more accepting of your inability. The best advice I can give you is to breathe through your nose, the entire time, and to focus on her neck and ears.