Hmmm this is weird.

[DJ_SUPREME]

Well I had asmall party on new years, you cant even call it a party considering I only had 4 people over and one of them left after midnight. Well this girl Ive been interested for a while now was spending the night over at my house, so fooled around a lil. Then we got into an argument about something dont remember what but I going to another room. Well we drank a **** load that night, I had the most to drink. So next morning I had like 1 or 2 shots dont really remember and I go downstairs, I turn up the music and she comes upto me and calms me down so I lay down onthe couch with her and we just lay thre for couple hours. At some point I started to fool around with her I dont remember when. Ok well after that I walk her to her car holding her hand and everything. I thought everything ws fine until I noticed that she has been ignoring me. Yesterday I found out that she is really mad at me cause I tried to get into her pants while my lil brother was there(he is 5) I had no idea he was there! I can barelly remember what exactly happend! Now she wont talk to me, she wanted my friend to give me the xmas present I got her, and she told him that she wants to be friends with me. Im so lost, ive tried calling her and she wont pick up. Just couple days ago she was telling me how much shelieks me and all that crap I dont think she can just stop liking me after couple days/hours. And I cant just next her. Any ideas how I can explain myself to her?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Alcohol can do bad stuff to people... maybe you should have followed procedure and stayed sober enough to think?

I doubt alcohol was the only problem you've been having though, since she is obviously distraught about something. I recommend you take her advice, and remain just friends so as not to ruin your relationship. She seems fragile right now, and you seem uptight about it. Sandpaper man, rubbing eachother the wrong way.

There's always these small problems, and when it is not all party hubbub where people are expected to be extreme, or the party wasn't exciting, some people start to feel down... and at new years, options are reconsidered, people start to think twice about their life at the moment. Has she had LITTLE problems with you for some time? I feel like Dr. Phil right now saying this... :woo:

Don't explain yourself, ask her to call you, when she is ready to talk. Than go back immediately after she gets the message, to you REGULAR life. Take some apart time, time to think things over, reevalute your situation... it's a break from responsibility, take a deep breath, it's good for you.

 

[golfguy]

She wants ur friend to give her the Christmas present you got her? And she won't talk to you?

I wouldn't bother with her...