So I am at so I'm out getting something to eat when I meet this girl and we sit down and have lunch together. We've seen each other around since we both work near each other but never really talked. She initated the convo and asked where I lived and where I went to school, basic stuff. Very thing runs smoothly and I ask if she is free this weekend. She smiles wide and looks up to the ceiling for a moment and says, well she really doesn't plan far ahead and she just hangs out with whoever calls first(Red Flag I know.) She mentioned that she wouldn't be working for the next couple of days but she was working friday and I could come to her place of bussiness on my lunch break and we "could talk," she gave me her number but said I should just show up on friday(I didn't even ask for the number mind you, but she said I should just show up and not call so I'm thinking a possible Red Flag there.) As I left she said something like "see you friday" or "see you later"...something like that. This girl is a solid 8, friendly (probably because she runs a decent restruant, not to far from where I work incidentally.) The only other thing is that most people call her by a guys name though her real name has no link to it she is clearly female and not sporting an adam's apple or any other tell tale signs(I've spent some time in Vegas and Europe so I know how to tell who's playing dress-up). Its odd because I never bumped into a girl going by a guy's name before when she is clearly a chick, a cute one at that, so naturally I'm real curious how she got the name.(So we got something to talk about when we hang out at least 
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So here's the deal she basically countered my offer to hang out over the weekend with meeting her at her restruant on friday. She gave me her number without asking, but told me I didn't have to call since we'd just meet up this friday. And beside my curosity over her nickname, the only think that sets me back about her is the fact that she is inclined to hang out with whoever calls first and that she said I didn't have to call since we would meet up on friday.
My feeling was to toss her a curveball to see if her intentions were legit. So my plan was to call her thrusday and say my schedule isn't open friday so the only chance she'll have to hang out with me is saturday afternoon since I have almost definite plans for that evening. I'll suggest that we get a quick lunch and if a decent movie is playing we can go watch that. I'll pick the restruant and she can pick the movie and we can suprise each other. If she says she can't and that I had better meet her friday at her restruant then I will go down to the restruant chat for about two minutes about how busy I am and that I have made plans to go out with a "friend" saturday night, then give her back her number and say you had your chance.
But I like to get an outside opinion when it comes to less than usual situations such as this. Am I reading this right and she has a low IL or am I looking at this in the wrong way.
-Grey Fox
)So here's the deal she basically countered my offer to hang out over the weekend with meeting her at her restruant on friday. She gave me her number without asking, but told me I didn't have to call since we'd just meet up this friday. And beside my curosity over her nickname, the only think that sets me back about her is the fact that she is inclined to hang out with whoever calls first and that she said I didn't have to call since we would meet up on friday.
My feeling was to toss her a curveball to see if her intentions were legit. So my plan was to call her thrusday and say my schedule isn't open friday so the only chance she'll have to hang out with me is saturday afternoon since I have almost definite plans for that evening. I'll suggest that we get a quick lunch and if a decent movie is playing we can go watch that. I'll pick the restruant and she can pick the movie and we can suprise each other. If she says she can't and that I had better meet her friday at her restruant then I will go down to the restruant chat for about two minutes about how busy I am and that I have made plans to go out with a "friend" saturday night, then give her back her number and say you had your chance.
But I like to get an outside opinion when it comes to less than usual situations such as this. Am I reading this right and she has a low IL or am I looking at this in the wrong way.
-Grey Fox