Hitting on a taken girl.

[confusedstate]

This girl has been dating a guy for a week, thinks she's in love with him lol. I saw his picture..one of those colored mohawk emo guys lol, she even admits, other women never check him out but she thinks he's cute.

She's slept with 5 or 6 men in 2010, i.e. slut. She even said "She can't say no." She even slept with an afc guy she was disgusted by simply because he persisted.

She told me where she works and that I could visit her anytime. I'm wondering if I should game her as if she were single.

Some of you may be thinking "She's taken man"...but like Bill Belichick says "I'm not worried about the other 31 teams, only my team." It's a free for all out there. Do you think other guys cared that my ex's had a boyfriend? No they probably hit on her anyway.

My goal isn't to make her my girlfriend anyway, it's a sexual attraction. So when I go in there, do I just mack her as if she were single, go for a kiss close at the end if there's rapport?

 

[FortunateSon]

Do what you want man, personally I don't hit on taken women, but whatever floats your boat.

 

[pipe007]

just attract her enough for her to make the decision to get physically involved with you, of course it wont be logical decision....

 

[Falcon25]

Bang her, and then take a long shower, make sure you get the right prescriptions for the pending herpes, hpv, and possibly hep c. Good luck!

 

[blueline]

Haha, you have an easy task compared to mine. I'm studying at starbucks tomorrow with a total babe that I've been flirting with all semester. I'm just gonna do the subtle attraction **** mostly with non-verbals and if she bites, she bites. Unfortunately, I suspect this girl has never cheated on her boyfriend, she's probably only had sex with two dudes in her entire life and she's 21, they've been together for almost 4 years, and they *~seem~* happy together. I'm not going to do anything overt and flashy like I usually do, haha.

She does, however, have some beautifully low self-esteem . You can never know, girls cheat on their BFs all the time.

Also, I gave this girl some deep eye contact from across the classroom once and she gave it right back. It's rare that uninterested girls will do that. I'm gonna do everything I do on a normal date except be aggressive with kino.

 

[f283000]

She's slept with 5 or 6 men in 2010, i.e. slut. She even said "She can't say no." She even slept with an afc guy she was disgusted by simply because he persisted.

You must really have low standards or not have a lot of options to be going for such girls. It makes it even worse that she has a bf. It's one thing trying to game a slut but a slut with a bf? Seriously you got no other options you could be gaming other than this? It makes you look real bad.

If I were to be taking risks on a woman that's already taken she would have to be top quality stuff for me to even consider it. HB 9, tremendous boobs and a$$, beautiful face, awesome personality, awesome chemistry between us, classy not trash or a known slut among other qualities.

Try not to french kiss her. You never know with these type of women what they had in their mouth the night before.

 

[confusedstate]

She looks exactly like Alexis Bledel, Rori from the Gilmore Girls. Lost her virginity at 19, now is 21 and addicted to sex. Has never had an orgasm.

One thing I've realized, most women in their 20s are low quality as far as personality, it's just a matter of finding ones that aren't as low quality as the others.

For whatever reason, she really turns me on lookswise, and her low self-esteem helps a lot.

 

[f283000]

She's not taken, see my sig.

Ha! PRL was such a legend although I'm positive this is a variation of a quote I read on an article from Dr Henry Makow.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

She's gonna cheat on mohawk guy with somebody, might as well be you.

Still kind of a hollow victory.

 

[terran2k]

you dunno how to work it with a girl that "can't say no"? I think you're all talk and you won't have the balls to do anything with her.
You call her a slut and such, but you want her.
Her b/f maybe some emo guy, but he's f*cking her and you aren't.

I am not going off on you, just saying what's on my mind when I read your post.

 

[confusedstate]

Like guys always say, women are controlled by their emotions. I know what she deep down wants but has never had (A preppy cute guy to hit on her) and I can be that guy and be higher value than the boyfriend and get her to the point where she enjoys spending time with me more than she does him then "it just happened."

I could care less what her bf thinks. He's not a threat and couldn't find me anyway.

 

[UniKKatiL]

Why would you want to be with her in a RS if she's a slut dude? Just **** her, and give her several orgasms.. That's when she will stick to you like glue, and you can use her as a **** buddy. As long as you give her good sex, it's all good.

 

[FortunateSon]

Like guys always say, women are controlled by their emotions. I know what she deep down wants but has never had (A preppy cute guy to hit on her) and I can be that guy and be higher value than the boyfriend and get her to the point where she enjoys spending time with me more than she does him then "it just happened."

I could care less what her bf thinks. He's not a threat and couldn't find me anyway.

If you want to have sex with her that's fine, but if you are looking for more then you are an idiot because she'll do the samething to you she's doing to "mohawk guy".

 

[confusedstate]

Not looking for a relationship with her, gaming multiple women. I guess there's an evil side deep down that wants to be the guy to screw up her relationship and her mind lol.

I guess her and the bf are going to a health center to get birth control (they've only been together a week and she thinks she's in love.) Does it makes me evil to want to seduce her?

 

[FastMen]

my humble toughts you can lose a lot more than yo can win, shes taken, and you dont want her as girlfriend

 

[Darth]

I guess there's an evil side deep down that wants to be the guy to screw up her relationship and her mind lol.

Not good dude.

 

[Igetit!]

I almost don't know where to began here. Confusedstate....dude...let me ask you a question....how do you know so much about this girl? Look at all you've said about here so far.

You said...

This girl has been dating a guy for a week, thinks she's in love with him lol. I saw his picture..one of those colored mohawk emo guys lol, she even admits, other women never check him out but she thinks he's cute.

She's slept with 5 or 6 men in 2010,

She even slept with an afc guy she was disgusted by simply because he persisted.

She has never had an orgasm.

You know ALL THAT about this girl,plus you say that she and her boyfriend are supposed to be going to a healthcare center to get birth control.


How do you know all this? Who told you these things?

Do you easedrop in on her conversations? You have her place bugged or something?


Who told you all this?



I've seen all your replies in this thread and disagree with 95% of what you've said,but there's one thing I WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree with you on,and that's your username. If nothing else dude,that's one thing you got right.



You said that she told you that she "can't say no" to guys,right? Well she's managed to do a pretty good job of saying it to YOU so far.

Have you even bothered trying to sleep with her,or are you too busy discussing her boyfriend and all the other men she's slept with?


You seem more like a therapist to her than a potential sexual interest.


You say that you know what she wants "deep down",which is a preppy guy to hit on her. Ok,and you know this based on.....what?


There's a familiar saying repeated all the time on this forum...."Go by what a woman does,NOT BY what she says".


According to you,she's currently dating an "emo guy" who has a colored mohawk. You also said that she slept with a "discusting guy" simply because he persisted. So that's her dating history,a discusting guy and an emo guy with a colored mohawk. If you go back even farther,you'll likely find even more guys like that.



That's what she DID. So what makes you think that she suddenly "deep down" all of the sudden wants a "preppy" guy?

If I had the choice of listening to you in deciding what this girl likes versus going by her dating history,well....I think I'd choose her dating history.




You asked if we think you're evil for wanting to seduce this girl. No,I wouldn't say evil per`se,but you DEFINATELY have some confusion going on.
You remind me of how I used to be a long time ago,which was freakin' CLUELESS. I was so clueless,that I'd "slip up" and do something right,and didn't even recognize it.



You said that you don't want a relationship and that all you're after is sex from the girl. Well if she "can't say no",then that shouldn't be much of a problem,but you need to chill out on all that talk about her sleeping with all these other guys.


You're going to friendzone yourself if you haven't already yet.

 

[confusedstate]

Igetit, I talk to her online and ask questions. It's not brain surgery how I got the info.

I haven't met her yet. She told me where she works but it's in the big city and a hassle to get to.

 

[Igetit!]

Igetit, I talk to her online and ask questions. It's not brain surgery how I got the info.

No DUH dude. I ALREADY KNEW how you got the info. I knew that she was the one who told you those things,I just wanted YOU to say it.


You DON'T GET IT.

You say that you talk to her online and ask her questions,but you're asking the WRONG QUESTIONS. If you're interested in her for YOURSELF,then you should be talking about YOU and HER,not all those other guys.


You talk about other guys hitting on her INSTEAD OF just simply hitting on her yourself.


You talk about other guys being sexual with her INSTEAD OF just being sexual with her yourself.


Just talking about sex in general won't make her sexually attracted to you,you have to make it PERSONAL,about you and her.


What you're doing is a precursor to being friendzoned. Trust me,I know,lol.

I haven't met her yet.

That makes it even worse. When you two do finally meet in person,she's going to expect you to be the person she met online,the one who talks about her and OTHER guys.


You run risk of making her uncomfortable if you try to get sexual with her in person after not having done it at all online.



Have you said ANYTHING romantic or sexual....pertaining to you and her,or is it all about her and other men?


She told you where she works,but I wouldn't go there. You won't accomplish anything. If you plan to continue discussing her and her sexual exploits with other guys you might be ok,but as far as anything between you and her,you'd need to alter how you speak to her online first.


If you can start flirting and teasing her online and have her accept it,then you'd have a green light to do it when you see her in person,but if you start flirting with her online and she rejects it,then she'll likely reject you in person if you try as well.

 

[confusedstate]

Yes we flirt...I tell her I'm masturbating to her, what I'd do if I were there. She tells me what she'd do to me and so on.