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Don Juan
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I probably already know the answer, but I probably don't want to believe the answer.
Since college start, one girl I met I took a particular liking. She's my ballroom dacing partner I practice with. She alot more serious, I'm less (my attention goes to fencing first when it come to free time and hobbies).
I like her, but I suspect that interest have dived too much for my to have a chance anymore. When I first me her, she asked questions, she was receptive to my kino, and she was dressing very cute.
Now when she comes in she doesn't come up and talk to me anymore, not confortable with my arm around her, not dressing as cute as she was the first few weeks (maybe she wasn't doing it a coincidence anyway).
Ok, it sounds really obvious, but a counter voice say "all may not be lost" and she is still practicing with me. Also she is very introverted. When I first met her, she was huddling alone in a corner with the rest chatted with everyone. When people lined up and the girls have to line up in two rows... she manage to be a step back behind the second line (it took a bit effort to get two first two lines to finally dance with her). She haven't make any friends at the school either, content to spend her time at the local bookstores, attending lessons, and on the computer (watching anime and so on). So there also a voice that say she could be very introverted.
Is she just being introvered (and lacking experience too obviously) (which means continue to spend time, flirt, and slowly escalate due her her personality) or my efforts is lost (which means I should just ask her out one more time to see if there any interest left, be told no, and move on). I have other girls on mind, but I still trying to hope that I can still build attraction and escalate.
Since college start, one girl I met I took a particular liking. She's my ballroom dacing partner I practice with. She alot more serious, I'm less (my attention goes to fencing first when it come to free time and hobbies).
I like her, but I suspect that interest have dived too much for my to have a chance anymore. When I first me her, she asked questions, she was receptive to my kino, and she was dressing very cute.
Now when she comes in she doesn't come up and talk to me anymore, not confortable with my arm around her, not dressing as cute as she was the first few weeks (maybe she wasn't doing it a coincidence anyway).
Ok, it sounds really obvious, but a counter voice say "all may not be lost" and she is still practicing with me. Also she is very introverted. When I first met her, she was huddling alone in a corner with the rest chatted with everyone. When people lined up and the girls have to line up in two rows... she manage to be a step back behind the second line (it took a bit effort to get two first two lines to finally dance with her). She haven't make any friends at the school either, content to spend her time at the local bookstores, attending lessons, and on the computer (watching anime and so on). So there also a voice that say she could be very introverted.
Is she just being introvered (and lacking experience too obviously) (which means continue to spend time, flirt, and slowly escalate due her her personality) or my efforts is lost (which means I should just ask her out one more time to see if there any interest left, be told no, and move on). I have other girls on mind, but I still trying to hope that I can still build attraction and escalate.
