High value texting. Put her on ice.

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I see many men are in the frame of having to reply to texts immediately or even double text which is a cultural tech thing, but backfires for game. I also see a lot of guys needlessly responding to girls who flake, disrespect them, or who text other nonsense which show disinterest in them

My philosophy is this: It almost never looks weak to not respond to a text. Not responding to flakery, a disrespectful comment or a girl your intuition tells you is disinterested is almost always the best course of action assuming you're not in a relationship with her. Not responding to a text is empowering. It puts you in the driver’s seat. It takes brute discipline.

Silence and distance allow you to gauge her emotional investment because if she doesn’t reach out to you appropriately, she merits no further engagement.

Over the years I been testing this with a few women in my pipeline and I have been merciless in weeding out flakes and girls I perceive to have interest below 70%.
One questionable text, one perceived slight, one flake, the wind blows the wrong way and they never hear from me again. It feels good. I know for every girl who fvcks up on txt there's another one around the corner who is on point, attentive and has higher interest levels.

Nothing more is needed to gauge a woman’s interest. You must emit the aura that you are a busy, no-nonsense man who has no time for fence-sitters. Nothing short of her moving mountains to see you like an obedient cvm guzzler for daddy will do.

Stop trying to recover sh!t text exchanges with disinterested females. Stop responding to every turd a girl dumps on your phone. Be selective and high value with who you give your attention to rather than continuing to try to wring water out of a rock.

This code edict applies strongly to women that you've already fvcked as well. The b!tch takes days to reply, texts back with something repugnant or a 1 word response she got to go. Going forward definitely ignore girls like this. If a girl takes days to reply(unless she replies and apologizes), she is more than likely no longer interested in you or another stray wolf is stealing your meal or both.

Chicks breathe attention. Denying them your attention is the best karma for a girl who makes it clear you're not a priority.

Your silence will make you live in her mind forever. And you will find it easier to next her for better quality or another toxic female.

In conclusion, do not be afraid to not respond. When in doubt, it's almost always the right answer. The medium is the message.

Nothing you do will ever game a girl for you as well or as much as her own imagination.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Silence in general is typically the best recourse unless it isn't.

In my experience the more she seeks to define, the less of that part she is actually playing since titles and overall communication favor women; always remember that if somebody else can read what you are sending her, somebody likely is and is offering advice based on that, good or bad.

Ive made the mistake in the past of living in her phone, instead of living in her head and the latter takes so much less effort and gets so much better results it's a bit scary I ever thought anything else would of worked as good in the first place.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I see many men are in the frame of having to reply to texts immediately or even double text which is a cultural tech thing, but backfires for game. I also see a lot of guys needlessly responding to girls who flake, disrespect them, or who text other nonsense which show disinterest in them

My philosophy is this: It almost never looks weak to not respond to a text. Not responding to flakery, a disrespectful comment or a girl your intuition tells you is disinterested is almost always the best course of action assuming you're not in a relationship with her. Not responding to a text is empowering. It puts you in the driver’s seat. It takes brute discipline.

Silence and distance allow you to gauge her emotional investment because if she doesn’t reach out to you appropriately, she merits no further engagement.

Over the years I been testing this with a few women in my pipeline and I have been merciless in weeding out flakes and girls I perceive to have interest below 70%.
One questionable text, one perceived slight, one flake, the wind blows the wrong way and they never hear from me again. It feels good. I know for every girl who fvcks up on txt there's another one around the corner who is on point, attentive and has higher interest levels.

Nothing more is needed to gauge a woman’s interest. You must emit the aura that you are a busy, no-nonsense man who has no time for fence-sitters. Nothing short of her moving mountains to see you like an obedient cvm guzzler for daddy will do.

Stop trying to recover sh!t text exchanges with disinterested females. Stop responding to every turd a girl dumps on your phone. Be selective and high value with who you give your attention to rather than continuing to try to wring water out of a rock.

This code edict applies strongly to women that you've already fvcked as well. The b!tch takes days to reply, texts back with something repugnant or a 1 word response she got to go. Going forward definitely ignore girls like this. If a girl takes days to reply(unless she replies and apologizes), she is more than likely no longer interested in you or another stray wolf is stealing your meal or both.

Chicks breathe attention. Denying them your attention is the best karma for a girl who makes it clear you're not a priority.

Your silence will make you live in her mind forever. And you will find it easier to next her for better quality or another toxic female.

In conclusion, do not be afraid to not respond. When in doubt, it's almost always the right answer. The medium is the message.

Nothing you do will ever game a girl for you as well or as much as her own imagination.

WOOF!

 

[EyeBRollin]

True but it is still game playing.

Advanced game- not giving a single fvck about texting as a means of communication. Simple.

Texting should only be used for sending specific information (directions, files, a list, etc). It should never be used for chit chatting.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

True but it is still game playing.

Advanced game- not giving a single fvck about texting as a means of communication. Simple.

Texting should only be used for sending specific information (directions, files, a list, etc). It should never be used for chit chatting.

“give her the gift of silence” they say.

Not responding is to unsubscribe the hoe. Drop the plate. Giving her the walking papers for being uncooperative and “go off the reservation”.
It does not matter why because you won’t lose any sleep at night. I had to bleed to earn my bones to get to this degree of mentality with women. It’s not for the faint of heart.

I do agree that texting etiquette should just be 2-3 exchanges of light teasing to amp up sexual tensions to pull her in and logistics. Then vanish.

There's a reason most chicks respond to asshxles / bad boys / sociopaths. It’s because girls are hardwired to follow strength and not falling into her frame is a form strength. Those guys are natural catnip to girls because their "IDAF" attitude is authentic...they really dont care because they cant.

 

[Solomon]

I see many men are in the frame of having to reply to texts immediately or even double text which is a cultural tech thing, but backfires for game. I also see a lot of guys needlessly responding to girls who flake, disrespect them, or who text other nonsense which show disinterest in them

My philosophy is this: It almost never looks weak to not respond to a text. Not responding to flakery, a disrespectful comment or a girl your intuition tells you is disinterested is almost always the best course of action assuming you're not in a relationship with her. Not responding to a text is empowering. It puts you in the driver’s seat. It takes brute discipline.

Silence and distance allow you to gauge her emotional investment because if she doesn’t reach out to you appropriately, she merits no further engagement.

Over the years I been testing this with a few women in my pipeline and I have been merciless in weeding out flakes and girls I perceive to have interest below 70%.
One questionable text, one perceived slight, one flake, the wind blows the wrong way and they never hear from me again. It feels good. I know for every girl who fvcks up on txt there's another one around the corner who is on point, attentive and has higher interest levels.

Nothing more is needed to gauge a woman’s interest. You must emit the aura that you are a busy, no-nonsense man who has no time for fence-sitters. Nothing short of her moving mountains to see you like an obedient cvm guzzler for daddy will do.

Stop trying to recover sh!t text exchanges with disinterested females. Stop responding to every turd a girl dumps on your phone. Be selective and high value with who you give your attention to rather than continuing to try to wring water out of a rock.

This code edict applies strongly to women that you've already fvcked as well. The b!tch takes days to reply, texts back with something repugnant or a 1 word response she got to go. Going forward definitely ignore girls like this. If a girl takes days to reply(unless she replies and apologizes), she is more than likely no longer interested in you or another stray wolf is stealing your meal or both.

Chicks breathe attention. Denying them your attention is the best karma for a girl who makes it clear you're not a priority.

Your silence will make you live in her mind forever. And you will find it easier to next her for better quality or another toxic female.

In conclusion, do not be afraid to not respond. When in doubt, it's almost always the right answer. The medium is the message.

Nothing you do will ever game a girl for you as well or as much as her own imagination.

Bravo, this should be in the main discussion this is an excellent post. Heck I have made the mistake of double texting recently(Cringe) but I totally agree. Women who are interested in you will hit you up. That goes for text,snapchats, IG DM's etc. I was just talking about this with a young kid I mentor. To many guys overthink this

True but it is still game playing.

Advanced game- not giving a single fvck about texting as a means of communication. Simple.

Texting should only be used for sending specific information (directions, files, a list, etc). It should never be used for chit chatting.

I agree with this however, texting is also great for building rapport, getting nudes, spiking IL etc. I have found it has worked very well for me in the past but than it also has done the opposite. I do think less texting is better, if you're to available it kind of ruins the mystique of curiosity. There are exceptions though as some girls love and prefer to text I remember once finding out from a girl I use to date back in 2009 her friend said the girl thought I was a good guy but to needy in text. I've learned escalate in person and try to meet a girl asap to many guys get caught up having "boring" i.e. good morning, how is your day text. The goal is to get a girl to meet you or meet up with her asap and you can talk in person

 

[DARKOLOGIE]

I see many men are in the frame of having to reply to texts immediately or even double text which is a cultural tech thing, but backfires for game. I also see a lot of guys needlessly responding to girls who flake, disrespect them, or who text other nonsense which show disinterest in them

My philosophy is this: It almost never looks weak to not respond to a text. Not responding to flakery, a disrespectful comment or a girl your intuition tells you is disinterested is almost always the best course of action assuming you're not in a relationship with her. Not responding to a text is empowering. It puts you in the driver’s seat. It takes brute discipline.

Silence and distance allow you to gauge her emotional investment because if she doesn’t reach out to you appropriately, she merits no further engagement.

Over the years I been testing this with a few women in my pipeline and I have been merciless in weeding out flakes and girls I perceive to have interest below 70%.
One questionable text, one perceived slight, one flake, the wind blows the wrong way and they never hear from me again. It feels good. I know for every girl who fvcks up on txt there's another one around the corner who is on point, attentive and has higher interest levels.

Nothing more is needed to gauge a woman’s interest. You must emit the aura that you are a busy, no-nonsense man who has no time for fence-sitters. Nothing short of her moving mountains to see you like an obedient cvm guzzler for daddy will do.

Stop trying to recover sh!t text exchanges with disinterested females. Stop responding to every turd a girl dumps on your phone. Be selective and high value with who you give your attention to rather than continuing to try to wring water out of a rock.

This code edict applies strongly to women that you've already fvcked as well. The b!tch takes days to reply, texts back with something repugnant or a 1 word response she got to go. Going forward definitely ignore girls like this. If a girl takes days to reply(unless she replies and apologizes), she is more than likely no longer interested in you or another stray wolf is stealing your meal or both.

Chicks breathe attention. Denying them your attention is the best karma for a girl who makes it clear you're not a priority.

Your silence will make you live in her mind forever. And you will find it easier to next her for better quality or another toxic female.

In conclusion, do not be afraid to not respond. When in doubt, it's almost always the right answer. The medium is the message.

Nothing you do will ever game a girl for you as well or as much as her own imagination.

I’m an old single dude, and I can only agree that being a shy, blue pill mindset guy for so long has ruined my way of interacting with women. It was a lot of chatting and messaging nonsense. It makes you look weak, uninteresting, and vulnerable. Yuck! And I can assure you that the chat **** 80% of the time doesn’t lead to anything good. A real waste of time. So yeah, I’m still unplugging and trying to change my mindset. I still don’t wanna become a MGTOW type of guy, even if it’s tempting. I’ve read the Rollo Tomassi books, and they broke my heart because they have all the stuff I figured out by myself through life experience and was trying to ignore. It’s a harsh reality, dudes, that we’re never getting that woman who will love us the way we want or will simply get it. But it is what it is. But let’s go back to the main subject. Too much texting ruins the attraction. And I’m still fighting the urge to fall into those extensive texting exchanges.

So, my advice is to be mindful of how much you text. It’s easy to fall into the trap of long, unproductive conversations, but staying balanced is key.

 

[Lotus Effect]

Nothing you do will ever game a girl for you as well or as much as her own imagination.

This! This is gospel!

This should be tattoed in your eyelids.

This is the best game. Plant the fvcking seed, and bail. Leave the rest to them!

Congrats man, you won the game!

 

[Gamisch]

Flame me if I am wrong as we are all here to learn from one another.

But imo you gotta build report via texting (or even better calling) first. (It's case specific ofcourse) . Show a woman you got game, know your way with words ect, you are experienced ect. Get her hooked like a junkie. And then slowly reduce the amount she gets. The latter cab best be practiced by GENUINELY being busy with usefully shyte. Imo THE trait of a HVM; he is busy growing / improving his whatever thus his time is valuable.

Obviously fecking her asap is mandatory in this process, becCause if you wait too long she'll regonize it as a game and think you ain't interested or a player and sometimes you DON'T wanna project too much playervibes. And as OP said too much ofcourse will kill the tension.

Thus this is HIGHLY ADVANCED GAME, 2nd dan beyond black belt level of game.

I guess it all becomes so much easier when you find one that is genuinely attracted to you. Gives you room for error whereas a lukewarm interested woman gives you very little wiggle room.

I absolutely don't " try to be different" and I highly respect yall knowledge . But I can also imagine some dudes will actually lose p00sy by playing the game like this while they don't even know the fine details to WHy they do what they do.

Correct me if I am wrong

 

[Lotus Effect]

We are talking about interested girls here.

You don't create tension in text. You mantain it, and increase it. With 2 to 3 texts.

Going ghost on a girl that has no interest on you means nothing, as you are already a ghost.

Going ghost on a girl that was begging you to destroy her the night before is totally different.

 

[Mertz09]

I’m an old single dude, and I can only agree that being a shy, blue pill mindset guy for so long has ruined my way of interacting with women. It was a lot of chatting and messaging nonsense. It makes you look weak, uninteresting, and vulnerable. Yuck! And I can assure you that the chat **** 80% of the time doesn’t lead to anything good. A real waste of time. So yeah, I’m still unplugging and trying to change my mindset. I still don’t wanna become a MGTOW type of guy, even if it’s tempting. I’ve read the Rollo Tomassi books, and they broke my heart because they have all the stuff I figured out by myself through life experience and was trying to ignore. It’s a harsh reality, dudes, that we’re never getting that woman who will love us the way we want or will simply get it. But it is what it is. But let’s go back to the main subject. Too much texting ruins the attraction. And I’m still fighting the urge to fall into those extensive texting exchanges.

So, my advice is to be mindful of how much you text. It’s easy to fall into the trap of long, unproductive conversations, but staying balanced is key.

“Too much texting ruins the attraction”
THIS !

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

The backbone of the post was for low interest females on the rocks. Medium-high interest women do need some fine-tuning.

With horny half-hearted females you got to set the tempo with some light tease texting to go in for the kill.
I can’t game through text so I prefer phone calls.
High interest women will answer your call.
I grew up with the house phone and burner flip phones talking to chicks since I was 14.
I’m a conversationalist mac slayer over the phone even on a bad day.
I always make sure to cut the phone call, not her, even during its peak climax. Something along the lines of “I have some business to attend to”. Keep her wanting more.

Even a phone call to build rapport needs to be with precision ... the entire time you are talking to her you need to have the Hollywood sign beaming at you saying:
"Is our conversation building familiarity and increasing her attraction to me by displaying high SMV?"

I talk to her as a "Comfort enhancer" and a "Momentum builder".
It's nice to carry a conversation and some momentum into a date for when you have her at your place playing some of The Weeknd songs over some cold wine to seal the deal.

Low quality girls who can't hold a conversation over the phone don't make the cut and those that do adore you. Age becomes largely (but not entirely) irrelevant.

Ignore a text if you don't feel like responding. But first you have to have your high value established to her so it can cause sexual tension.
That’s personal M.O.

But to ignore it strategically for a better ROI? Especially if you ain’t got no pot to piss in?
Then that will backfire like a bad habit. This whole "playing aloof" game is pre-Mystery and has been debunked many times by veteran slayers. Unless you already fvcked her and she already sees you as a sex god, ignoring a text from her simply makes the girl put you on ice while she responds to 5 other texts from her bench of potential suitors.

At the end of the day, just do what your balls full of testosterone feel like doing.
“If you want a woman to abandon her stupid beliefs then you have to provide something else to replace them with. A man has to be the spiritual and intellectual leader of his tribe, not just the physical leader.”

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Sounds like you have been a person hurt by women and now are overreacting to "disrespect" and actively searching for it.

To those who respect themselves, they don't need to constantly demand respect or go in search of it. To those who constantly demand it, it's likely because they don't exude the type of energy where it is given naturally and they are trying to manufacture it from others.

I'm never one to double text or beg women to do anything, but I'm also not one to constantly look for disrespect and then "use them as an example" of what happens when someone disrespects me either.

Respect is earned, not given, and typically you get what you give in regards to that.
If you are not getting enough "respect" perhaps you should work on being the type of man who is worthy of getting it without having to actively demand it.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Sounds like you have been a person hurt by women and now are overreacting to "disrespect" and actively searching for it.

To those who respect themselves, they don't need to constantly demand respect or go in search of it. To those who constantly demand it, it's likely because they don't exude the type of energy where it is given naturally and they are trying to manufacture it from others.

I'm never one to double text or beg women to do anything, but I'm also not one to constantly look for disrespect and then "use them as an example" of what happens when someone disrespects me either.

Respect is earned, not given, and typically you get what you give in regards to that.
If you are not getting enough "respect" perhaps you should work on being the type of man who is worthy of getting it without having to actively demand it.
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