High School is alot different than NOT being in High School. Trust me, I wouldn't call it the greatest time of my life, but when your trapped inside a building with around 1,000 females(well, at my school anyway) 8 hours a day, 5 days a week nearly all year. Then your going to have more oppurtunities than you think.
I was pretty popular in High School I guess, I was a jock more or less but I've never got any girls just due to my jock status. You want to know what got me more girls than anything?
My mouth
I never stoppped talking to girls. NEVER, I was hitting on them, flirting with them, getting numbers even when I had no ****ing clue what to say or how to pleasure them. I just never stopped, I challenged myself to become like the people I admired, because I thought that they were happy. I learnt by example, I have a friend named Austin who was probably one of the most successful High School DJ's I've ever had the pleasure to watch spit game. He slept with around 20-30 girls from the same High School. He wasn't tall, dark and handsome. He was a short guy, that got laid ALL THE TIME. I had other friends who were successful, but not as much as he was in high school. Thats when I learnt that how you carry yourself, talk and your actions speak alot more than I ever thought.
My Junior year is when I really errupted. One thing that I noticed completely about my attitude was that I just stopped caring. Like in earlier years, I would be to timid and shy to just say whatever whenever I wanted. This isn't a battlecry to conform to non-conformity, or go shop at Hot Topic. But the fear left me, completely and I didn't even realize it.
When I stopped caring what other people thought about me, is when my sex life started
In High School some of us get caught up, but I can honestly say in all of my stupidity that I had(and still have) one thing that I've always been able to do is see people for who they are. Some guys on the HS board are professing their love or want their girl back, but they don't see what relationships in High School are:
Lessons and practice for meaningful relationships further in life
I'd say there is a 99% chance that that hot girl sitting in front of you in Spanish class isn't going to end up with you the rest of your life. So stop acting like it, when you act desperate. It reeks, trust me. That is the number 1 turn off among women, whether they say it or not. No-one wants a emotional, poetry writing love sick puppy dog calling them 10 times a day. Well, some might, but most dont.
I'm probably more succesful than most people on this board ever will be, But dont think that is some bragging bull**** to puff up my already inflated ego. I'd say I got shot down more than 50% of the time, That means asking for number, hitting on them, trying to pick them up, cold approaches. But thats a WHOLE lot of girls. But I've learnt to take it in stride, I don't get down on myself. I've made it a habit, I dont an emotional attachment by seeing a hot girl. I just see it for what it is at the time: A Hot Girl.
So lesson in High School? See girls for what and who they are, your probably not going to marry someone from HS. So dont be looking for a bride, keep that mouth running and stop caring what they think. I think the quote that summarizes my entire philopshy and made me rethink my strategy would be one night my Junior year when we were at the mall, I saw this incredibly hot girl and was enveloped with fear. I was terrified of rejection from some girl I didn't even know and would never see again, I started making up excuses to my friend(Channing) as to why I couldn't approach her and he said this to me.
"Since when did you start giving a **** what a woman thinks?"
You could take it as a woman/hater type statement but if you knew him, it's purpose was purely motivational. It was a slap in the face, I needed someone to dump a cold bucket of water on me and that was it. I was never the same after that.
Dont get caught up with emotional attachments, and just have fun in High School. Dont worry about serious relationships, those things come with time, and trust me. You wanna wait for that!
I was pretty popular in High School I guess, I was a jock more or less but I've never got any girls just due to my jock status. You want to know what got me more girls than anything?
My mouth
I never stoppped talking to girls. NEVER, I was hitting on them, flirting with them, getting numbers even when I had no ****ing clue what to say or how to pleasure them. I just never stopped, I challenged myself to become like the people I admired, because I thought that they were happy. I learnt by example, I have a friend named Austin who was probably one of the most successful High School DJ's I've ever had the pleasure to watch spit game. He slept with around 20-30 girls from the same High School. He wasn't tall, dark and handsome. He was a short guy, that got laid ALL THE TIME. I had other friends who were successful, but not as much as he was in high school. Thats when I learnt that how you carry yourself, talk and your actions speak alot more than I ever thought.
My Junior year is when I really errupted. One thing that I noticed completely about my attitude was that I just stopped caring. Like in earlier years, I would be to timid and shy to just say whatever whenever I wanted. This isn't a battlecry to conform to non-conformity, or go shop at Hot Topic. But the fear left me, completely and I didn't even realize it.
When I stopped caring what other people thought about me, is when my sex life started
In High School some of us get caught up, but I can honestly say in all of my stupidity that I had(and still have) one thing that I've always been able to do is see people for who they are. Some guys on the HS board are professing their love or want their girl back, but they don't see what relationships in High School are:
Lessons and practice for meaningful relationships further in life
I'd say there is a 99% chance that that hot girl sitting in front of you in Spanish class isn't going to end up with you the rest of your life. So stop acting like it, when you act desperate. It reeks, trust me. That is the number 1 turn off among women, whether they say it or not. No-one wants a emotional, poetry writing love sick puppy dog calling them 10 times a day. Well, some might, but most dont.
I'm probably more succesful than most people on this board ever will be, But dont think that is some bragging bull**** to puff up my already inflated ego. I'd say I got shot down more than 50% of the time, That means asking for number, hitting on them, trying to pick them up, cold approaches. But thats a WHOLE lot of girls. But I've learnt to take it in stride, I don't get down on myself. I've made it a habit, I dont an emotional attachment by seeing a hot girl. I just see it for what it is at the time: A Hot Girl.
So lesson in High School? See girls for what and who they are, your probably not going to marry someone from HS. So dont be looking for a bride, keep that mouth running and stop caring what they think. I think the quote that summarizes my entire philopshy and made me rethink my strategy would be one night my Junior year when we were at the mall, I saw this incredibly hot girl and was enveloped with fear. I was terrified of rejection from some girl I didn't even know and would never see again, I started making up excuses to my friend(Channing) as to why I couldn't approach her and he said this to me.
"Since when did you start giving a **** what a woman thinks?"
You could take it as a woman/hater type statement but if you knew him, it's purpose was purely motivational. It was a slap in the face, I needed someone to dump a cold bucket of water on me and that was it. I was never the same after that.
Dont get caught up with emotional attachments, and just have fun in High School. Dont worry about serious relationships, those things come with time, and trust me. You wanna wait for that!
)... guess what, i notice lots and lots of girls staring at me and i have been approached a dozen times in less than a school year...