Long story short,
Started seeing one of my best friends coworkers early last month. Things were real cool, she'd always be down to meet up when I would ask her out, we were pretty hot and heavy spending lots of time together (at least twice a week, text almost every day) ...then the week before last after while in her bed thursday, both of us recovering from a pretty crazy happy hour and night out on wednesday, we were both half naked and she had just gone down on me, i had gotten out of the bed to grab a condom from my pants and she asks me when my last serious relationship was. I told her the truth, 4 years ago but I've seen people here and there since then. She told me hers was around that same time frame and same deal. She told me shes never had intercourse before which is funny to hear but I kind of believed her, since we had escalated to clothes off before but she would be reluctant to take off her pants (they'd end up coming off after a bit more kissing haha). She said that she hadn't gone all the way because she wants to focus on her career and didn't want anything coming up to steer away from it. I told her we can take it slow and that I really like her (mistake i know now). We went to eat after that and while we were holding hands and kissing out in public and stuff, she dropped her keys in this bag i had by accident and I had to drive back to her place to drop em off after we had already parted and me getting my car at a friends about 20 minutes away. Then that weekend it seemed to start going downhill. We've talked a few times since then online while shes at work for a little bit but not much, as I was picking up on the signs of falling interest.
She hasn't said anything about not seeing each other anymore but I have not contacted her since our last gchat early friday and don't plan on doing so. Should I call her sometime midweek and say "Hey, youve been kinda cold/distant, is everything cool?"
I spent too much time with her I feel and also got real attached because I thought she was great due to her high interest, how much fun we had and our similarities..
How do I act if she actually tries to contact me at some point? Should I not reply or what? I hate how things are up in the air, and I was out with my good friend who works with her last night and she texted him (him her and a few others spend time together outside of work and hang out too) about a friends who was visiting her this weekend bday party going on that night.. i knew about the friend coming to visit from her but didn't know anything else specific. He also told me that she can be "hot and cold". Anyways just looking for some input from others. I normally don't let the females get too close to me but I did with this one because she was letting me in and now I feel like a gump
Started seeing one of my best friends coworkers early last month. Things were real cool, she'd always be down to meet up when I would ask her out, we were pretty hot and heavy spending lots of time together (at least twice a week, text almost every day) ...then the week before last after while in her bed thursday, both of us recovering from a pretty crazy happy hour and night out on wednesday, we were both half naked and she had just gone down on me, i had gotten out of the bed to grab a condom from my pants and she asks me when my last serious relationship was. I told her the truth, 4 years ago but I've seen people here and there since then. She told me hers was around that same time frame and same deal. She told me shes never had intercourse before which is funny to hear but I kind of believed her, since we had escalated to clothes off before but she would be reluctant to take off her pants (they'd end up coming off after a bit more kissing haha). She said that she hadn't gone all the way because she wants to focus on her career and didn't want anything coming up to steer away from it. I told her we can take it slow and that I really like her (mistake i know now). We went to eat after that and while we were holding hands and kissing out in public and stuff, she dropped her keys in this bag i had by accident and I had to drive back to her place to drop em off after we had already parted and me getting my car at a friends about 20 minutes away. Then that weekend it seemed to start going downhill. We've talked a few times since then online while shes at work for a little bit but not much, as I was picking up on the signs of falling interest.
She hasn't said anything about not seeing each other anymore but I have not contacted her since our last gchat early friday and don't plan on doing so. Should I call her sometime midweek and say "Hey, youve been kinda cold/distant, is everything cool?"
I spent too much time with her I feel and also got real attached because I thought she was great due to her high interest, how much fun we had and our similarities..
How do I act if she actually tries to contact me at some point? Should I not reply or what? I hate how things are up in the air, and I was out with my good friend who works with her last night and she texted him (him her and a few others spend time together outside of work and hang out too) about a friends who was visiting her this weekend bday party going on that night.. i knew about the friend coming to visit from her but didn't know anything else specific. He also told me that she can be "hot and cold". Anyways just looking for some input from others. I normally don't let the females get too close to me but I did with this one because she was letting me in and now I feel like a gump
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