Hey guys....women don't dig nice guys?..wrong!....

[Real Man]

Being nice is what makes them fall in love with you......Nice as in masculine nice...not puppy dog nice. Chivalry, gentlemanly.

You can't act like a jerk and expect her feelings to get deeper and deeper.

Be independent, strong, in control.....a real man....but do be tender and nice to her......only after she earns it though.

This was a married woman i was fuking at work. She basically wanted me and i was tempted and started fuking her. Things got a little serious with her....she wanted me to start making love to her and even spoke of serious stuff.......i told her to go back to her husband. She started crying and played games with me....like saying 'oh, i feel so rejected and its not nice'...she basically wanted me to keep fuking her.....she was using emotional black mail. I did not fuk her again and she said she respected me for being so disciplined. She tried every seduction technique in the book but i am a strong mofo and said no!.




Notice: 'curious mix of power and gentleness'.........this is what she finds irresistible.

Power = Big strong masculine guy.

Gentleness = fuked if i know.....god knows what she found gentle about me...maybe she felt i could be nice...dunno



I then told her to calm down and we stop ****ing and go back to her husband as she belonged to him not me. She was crying and all that. I told her that we should be friends and she is...not like girly friend though.....women never become girly friends with me...maybe because they see me as fukable....if a woman acts around you like she does with her friends...be afraid...very afraid...ha!. She send this email when i offer support due to a problem she is going through.

anyway this women is crazy about me and what made her so was that curious mix of power and gentleness......a rough tough masculine bloke who can be gentle sometimes but only with her.


What are your opinions on this? Niceness has a place me thinks.

 

[MickoZ]

YOUR DaJugador? **** HER OR NEXT HER.

 

[Real Man]

Hey....

I have fuked her many many times.

She is a friend now.

I am only showing that niceness has a place.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Ye the whole "niceguy" thing will **** you up is so wrong. There are several girls I've scored that i've been very nice and almost as a friend too. Some girls are actually only possible to get by being a real gentleman and romantic and open.

 

[xblitz44x]

That's great. This is getting nowhere and is only going to breed ANOTHER nice guy vs. jerk debate. It's useless. The bottom line is that it depends on the girl. The "nice" or the "jerk" was never what attracted the girl to begin with. It was the 'dominance' that the girl perceived in the jerk-ish actions, and the passiveness that the girl saw in the nice actions. That's it! It's so dependant on the girl and her perceptions that we'll NEVER be able to say "Jerks get girls"...or "Nice guys get girls" because it was never the JERK or the NICE that swayed the decision to begin with!~

 

[Solomon79]

You're right. The bottom line is, be fearless. You can be fearless and be nice at the same time.

It's when women sense fear that they think they must be too good for you - since you clearly feel that they're too good for you, and if you do, then it must be the case!!!

Simple. Kill the fear. You have nothing to lose. You were born alone and will die alone. Just have fun.

 

[G_S]

this was covered by Pook a long time ago.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

I missed the part where you were "nice" to her. Which part is it?

 

[MickoZ]

He just told it, he gave him that chubby piece, that is the only time he was really nice to her. He is her toy.

 

[E-Z Rider]

Jeez- I think this site made a bad mistake by labeling guys as "nice" or "jerks".

A better set of terms would be "wuss" and "man". Being nice doesn't make you a wuss neccesarily, anymore than being a jerk makes you a man.

I think a lot of people get confused over this.

-E-Z

 

[Player_Supreme]

If I may have permission to state:

nice is ok, as long as your aware of the predatory nature of people and especially women. They will try to test you. And when they do you need to respond in a way that their need to test will be put to an immediate end!

I don't buy into the whole "jerk" ideology. A word created by women and supplicated by men who mistakenly believe that if they kiss a womans ass enough and hate "real men" then they might get some p*ussy from them.

What your talking about is an "ass*hole". I guess because I:



1. Put my desires first
2. will quickly dump a woman who gives me trouble
3. do n’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. do n’t let women or people disrespect me.
5. Gets pissed off and and I'm not afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about me especially her friends and I'm not looking for approval.

Makes me a jerk then. So be it!

It’s women who complain about a man being a jerk. And this is because I am un-tame-able. I present the challenge that women crave. I demand total loyalty and supplication on their part. I'm nice but fierce about my beliefs.

 

[jbbrain]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
That's great. This is getting nowhere and is only going to breed ANOTHER nice guy vs. jerk debate. It's useless. The bottom line is that it depends on the girl. The "nice" or the "jerk" was never what attracted the girl to begin with. It was the 'dominance' that the girl perceived in the jerk-ish actions, and the passiveness that the girl saw in the nice actions. That's it! It's so dependant on the girl and her perceptions that we'll NEVER be able to say "Jerks get girls"...or "Nice guys get girls" because it was never the JERK or the NICE that swayed the decision to begin with!~

I disagree with this. Although being dominant is an attractive quality for most women, it need not be put under the "Jerk" category. Jerks, in my mind, are guys who treat women badly...and if you don't believe some girls fall for that type of shyt, then you are sadly mistaken (or haven't dated much).

Xblitz, I think you're talkin about "good" girls. Women with integrity and self esteem. These types will often not put up with the disrespect and abusive behaviour the Jerk gives them, but will definitely respond to being dominated, shown the way, swept off her feet etc.

 

[jbbrain]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme




1. Put my desires first
2. will quickly dump a woman who gives me trouble
3. do n’t suck up to women or put them on pedestals
4. do n’t let women or people disrespect me.
5. Gets pissed off and and I'm not afraid to show it
6. Aren’t afraid to hurt women emotionally.
7. Doesn’t care what others think about me especially her friends and I'm not looking for approval.

Makes me a jerk then. So be it!

It’s women who complain about a man being a jerk. And this is because I am un-tame-able. I present the challenge that women crave. I demand total loyalty and supplication on their part. I'm nice but fierce about my beliefs.

Player, that doesnt make u an *******, or a jerk, that makes you a MAN.

A MAN possesses all the good qualities from the JERK side as well as the NICE side to come with something that women just love.

and just so people dont get confused, i wanna make clear the opposites:

AFC-Man
Nice guy-Jerk (both arent desirable, but both possess qualities that fall under "MAN" status)