hey do you guys rub one out before date???

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I was wondering i know people say if horny more aggressive but i also feel judgment is clouded and not as ****y. Please help thank you
 

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Absolutely not. To my knowledge, the only people that do it are the ones scared of orgasming too early.

Even if I orgasm too early, there's always a second round.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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thelonewolflegend said:
problem is this chick wont go second round usually how do u convince her?
You must be doing something wrong. I mean once I get involve with a chick, she's usually ready for a few rounds :box:

Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
 

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badboyjmm said:
Anyways, rubbing one out might screw you over at the end because you won't have the drive to make the move in order to finish the deal
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
 
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Buck83 said:
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
Quit masturbation as a sexual outlet and get addicted to sex and make sex your outlet. It's for real, rubbing one out does kill some of the drive to get the real thing!
 

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I think this whole thing about masturbating before a date comes from the movie There's Something About Mary. I had never heard of such a thing before seeing that film. And no, I don't think much of the idea.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Buck83 said:
^^^This. I used to be too complacent until I stopped. Once a month is more than enough imo. I think, in my exp at least, I lose the hunger and aggression (drive) after rubbing one out.
Quitting all together was the best thing to ever happen to my sex life.

As for multiple rounds. A whiskey bottle on the night stand always seems to do the trick ;)
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.

Definitely right about alcohol helping. I already a beast without it, with alcohol... I'm pretty much unstoppable :rockon:

Back to OP, once you are done and ready for the second round, you lead the interaction for sex to happen again

Either you re-start foreplay or you immediately put her in position to receive your offering. If you were doing it right the first time, she will be waiting for more :cheer: !
 

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badboyjmm said:
Exactly, I love porn but it makes me uber lazy and I tend to not have any motivation to meet girls. So No fap is generally a good idea.
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.
 

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zekko said:
On the other hand, many guys here rue the addictive-like hold that women have over them. So if you can fap and be relatively free of that, is it really a bad thing? Just food for thought.
Fair enough, I guess it there's a sweet balance in between the two
 

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No. That's some beta sh!t right there. 1-2 nights before? Possibly but I wouldn't recommend it. The same day? Hell no
 
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