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Don Juan
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- Feb 21, 2019
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Hey, guys.
Quick question (for those who actually have some experience in cold approach):
What does it mean when a girl hesitates when giving me her number.
Let’s say the interaction before that was okay. Good energy, some comfort, some spikes, smiles, etc. For around 7-12 min. Looks hooked. Asks questions here and there.
But then, when it comes to exchanging contacts under the pretext of seeing each other another day soon, they will hesitate to give the number.
I had 2 of those today. My “defusing” of the situation is to say honestly and confidently “don’t worry, I won’t bother you. I will send you exactly 1 message, and you reply if you want to”.
Then, they will give their number. Oftentimes they want to exchange Instagram instead but I say I don’t like it because it’s fake.
Do you think this is a sign of a lack of comfort? Or they are not that interested? Or I should spike more and be more smooth so they don’t feel like I’m taking something from them?
Any ideas would be appreciated. (Unless they are nonsense.)
Quick question (for those who actually have some experience in cold approach):
What does it mean when a girl hesitates when giving me her number.
Let’s say the interaction before that was okay. Good energy, some comfort, some spikes, smiles, etc. For around 7-12 min. Looks hooked. Asks questions here and there.
But then, when it comes to exchanging contacts under the pretext of seeing each other another day soon, they will hesitate to give the number.
I had 2 of those today. My “defusing” of the situation is to say honestly and confidently “don’t worry, I won’t bother you. I will send you exactly 1 message, and you reply if you want to”.
Then, they will give their number. Oftentimes they want to exchange Instagram instead but I say I don’t like it because it’s fake.
Do you think this is a sign of a lack of comfort? Or they are not that interested? Or I should spike more and be more smooth so they don’t feel like I’m taking something from them?
Any ideas would be appreciated. (Unless they are nonsense.)