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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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The only advice I can really give without knowing your specific problems is to start off by reading the DJ Bible. You can find it in the bottom left corner of this page.
Also, use the Search function to look for any specific situations you have questions with, and start a thread to ask something more unique to you.
The other thing I can give advice on. Try to understand why people here are giving you the advice they give you. Not only will that help you learn, but it's also important to know that not everything here should be taken as fact. You are gonna need to learn what is good advice, and what can work for you.
Diaforetikos
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PDubb, you forgot one thing...
TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!
You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.
TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.
NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!
You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.
TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.
NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
I sure did forget one thing! One major thing... Thanks for adding that on.Diaforetikos said:PDubb, you forgot one thing...
TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!
You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.
TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.
NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.