Her Signals from Last Night

[Timster]

This girl I hang out with - last night she kissed my shoulder as we were leaving the restaurant we ate at. She locked arms with me when we went shopping afterwards and when we went back to my place, we watched a movie while laying on my bed.

I initiated the hand-holding and I caressed her arm and hand/fingers with my fingers. I also played with her hair for a little bit.

I noticed she would rub her lips with her fingers and play with her necklace from time to time.

After the movie ended, I looked over at her and we looked into each other's eyes for a few seconds, but she turned away. Is she afraid to kiss me, or is she afraid that I'll kiss her?

 

[spider_007]

If she wasn't interasted, she wouldn't be there (she would bail) and she wouldn't be flirty. so next time, just take her face in your hands and plant one on her

 

[Doubledragon]

Too ****ing right, you gotta be the man and initiate the kiss!

 

[insomniac]

Apparantly you unwittingly executed and passed the "kiss test" (Supposedly if she let's you play with her hair, she won't reject a kiss).

She was probably thinking the same thing you were..."Does he want to kiss me?" "Does he want me to kiss him?" "Should I kiss him?" Next time, just do it.

 

[Timster]

Kissing in the beginning is the best way to go -- I realize that now. That way, you can get it out of the way without all of the wondering. And, maybe do some more during the boring parts of the movie.

I want to kiss her when she least expects it. It will show that I have confidence, and it will be exhilerating for her.

I'll kiss her the next time I see her. I'll let you all know what happens.

I figure, it's better to kiss her than to resent not kissing her and wondering what could have happened -- cause that just causes a lot of frustration.

 

[insomniac]

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I don't know what you're talking about. He didn't pass any kiss test.

Just becaue a girl let's you play with her hair doesn't mean she won't reject a kiss.

Which is why I put the "supposedly" in there. Never tried it myself, so can't personally say if it works.

Do a search and you'll find more posts on "kiss test." I think it's in DeAngelo's book too.

 

[sexual_intellectual]

go with your gut. When it feels like a kissing moment, then kiss her. So you missed an opportunity, well you can pass that off as being unpredictable. You mustn'y make her think that you'll never kiss her though, or she'll find someone else who is more in touch with his drives. Just do what comes naturally to you next time you're with her.

 

[Timster]

"If she touches her lips, subconsciously she wants to touch your lips."

I noticed she did this a lot. She was caressing her lips with her fingers and even rested her fingers on them for a while...

Obviously, my kiss is overdue.

 

[Hellboy]

I'm with spider. If she didn't want a kiss she woudn't be there.
I don't usually go for a kiss on the lips first. Best starter move is to slowly brush her hair back across her neck, exposing her ear. Then kiss her neck. It's kinda teasing and sensual. It's not so dramatic as the first kiss in terms of positioning/timing so it's more relaxed for both parties. Added bonus you'll get her horny. If she lets you do that she'll let you do pretty much anything eventually.

So warm her up like that before you go in for the first kiss.