Her materialism makes me sick.

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While I was at work, my girlfriend called and asked me to buy two plane tickets for that Ukraine ski trip. I wasn’t shocked at how demanding my girlfriend may seem. She has become like that since I pampered her with everything she wants. She often tells me to buys these and those. She has become a spoiled brat because of me and it makes me sick. I don’t want her to call me when she needs to buy something. I want her to come and tell me she loves me. I don’t want her to remember me when the latest version of Apple comes out. I want her to randomly give me a phone call because she misses me. I don’t want her to see me as a provider only but rather a real boyfriend. I want her to remember that I am her BOYFRIEND and not a sugar daddy. But how am I supposed to do that?
 

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While I was at work, my girlfriend called and asked me to buy two plane tickets for that Ukraine ski trip. I wasn’t shocked at how demanding my girlfriend may seem. She has become like that since I pampered her with everything she wants. She often tells me to buys these and those. She has become a spoiled brat because of me and it makes me sick. I don’t want her to call me when she needs to buy something. I want her to come and tell me she loves me. I don’t want her to remember me when the latest version of Apple comes out. I want her to randomly give me a phone call because she misses me. I don’t want her to see me as a provider only but rather a real boyfriend. I want her to remember that I am her BOYFRIEND and not a sugar daddy. But how am I supposed to do that?
Break up with her get another female. That's who she is . That's what your relationship is about.

You can't complain beg or negotiate . Don't do this again for another female .
 

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Start spinning plates. She needs to know that you have options.
 

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She has become like that since I pampered her with everything she wants.

She has become a spoiled brat because of me and it makes me sick.

I want her to remember that I am her BOYFRIEND and not a sugar daddy. But how am I supposed to do that?
You created this situation, deal with it or do better with your next woman.
It’s like raising a kid. Give them everything, they get spoiled and expect the same treatment from you from now until hell freezes over…
Learn the word No.
 
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There is no "undoing" what you have done here. You go find a new one and don't make that mistake ever again.
 

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When you beat the 5hit out of a dog and it becomes violent against humans, there is no way to fix that. You've fvcked up that dog for life. The same goes with women. If you spoil the 5hit out of her, she's fvcked up for life.

I had an ex that I spoiled the hell out of. Even when she started pursuing me again 15 years later, she was always asking me for 5hit. I never gave in, but that never stopped her from asking for stuff.
 
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This part is interesting:
“I want her to come and tell me she loves me. I don’t want her to remember me when the latest version of Apple comes out. I want her to randomly give me a phone call because she misses me.”

This is why you got into trouble and ended up with the woman the way she is.
That is not how a woman is wired. Per Tomassi, we as men, are idealistic when it comes to love. The “ideal”. Women are wired to feel and express opportunistic love. I agree utterly and completely with Tomassi. It’s the only thing that fits. In fact I observed it it full bloom last night.
Based on her Hypergamy imperative, based on her viewpoint.
This is very advantageous for a woman. This different type of love gives her the ability to just cut it off like a switch. You can see this in how they can be so cold (from our viewpoint) when they decide to move on. Or get over the death of a friend or family member much faster than a man. She can be off enjoying new men and sexual opportunities while her ex is crushed and maybe even contemplating suicide.
Bottom line: A woman is incapable of loving you the way you want to be LOVED. NEVER EVER
Now look at all the things you did for her. Bought for her. If you knew that she was utterly incapable of loving you in the idealistic way that you desire, would you still of done it?
When you take that red pill, you are all in. No matter how ugly it gets. You can’t go back. You’re out of the matrix. Your only obstacle now is education and letting go of everything that you thought was true.
Your life in this area is a complete brainwashed lie.
 

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When you beat the 5hit out of a dog and it becomes violent against humans, there is no way to fix that. You've fvcked up that dog for life. The same goes with women. If you spoil the 5hit out of her, she's fvcked up for life.

I had an ex that I spoiled the hell out of. Even when she started pursuing me again 15 years later, she was always asking me for 5hit. I never gave in, but that never stopped her from asking for stuff.
Did you get some pvssy?
 

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I was thinking this was either Naughty Ninja or a bot. I'll leave the thread open because there's actually a lot of good material here.
 

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While I was at work, my girlfriend called and asked me to buy two plane tickets for that Ukraine ski trip. I wasn’t shocked at how demanding my girlfriend may seem. She has become like that since I pampered her with everything she wants.


How's that working out?

May as well be a sugar daddy. Hotter girls. Less B/S.

She often tells me to buys these and those. She has become a spoiled brat because of me and it makes me sick. I don’t want her to call me when she needs to buy something. I want her to come and tell me she loves me. I don’t want her to remember me when the latest version of Apple comes out. I want her to randomly give me a phone call because she misses me. I don’t want her to see me as a provider only but rather a real boyfriend. I want her to remember that I am her BOYFRIEND and not a sugar daddy. But how am I supposed to do that?
Grow a pair.

Man up or some other dude will going balls deep on her ass after she empties your bank.
 
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