Her birthday. What do I do?

[Stormblade]

Hey guys,
There is this girl whos interested in me and I like her, she's been trying to weasel me into having her come over to my place so we can cook dinner together. I've been really busy and playing the challenge card. She's reminded me quite a few times that today is her birthday, I said stop telling and lets see if I find her important enought to remember. I figured i'd call her tonight around 11:30 say happy b'day and set something up. What would you guys do?

 

[Stormblade]

Someone must have had a similar situation? Please share it.

 

[Chip]

did she invite you for her birthday?
cause if you blew her off, she might be a little bit pissed.
I had a similar situation (almost).
I don't think there's anything wrong with calling her up on her birthday to wish her a happy birthday and to set something up.
(I did that and it went well).
Though I don't understand why you would wait till 11:30 to call her.
Wouldn't she be kinda tired from celebrating her birthday with her girlfriends?
Anyways, yeah call her to set something.

 

[matius]

There is this girl whos interested in me and I like her, she's been trying to weasel me into having her come over to my place so we can cook dinner together.

What a weasel bltch. I wish I had a girl saying this to me tonight.

I've been really busy and playing the challenge card

Want to see my epiphany: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29190 | Check it, it worked! She wants to come over...you can give in at this point (just a lil bit)

She's reminded me quite a few times that today is her birthday, I said stop telling and lets see if I find her important enought to remember.

Well atleast you have the snobby prick thing down.

I figured i'd call her tonight around 11:30 say happy b'day and set something up.

Are you sure you even want to?

I'm just talking this trash because I acted EXACTLY the same way and it got me nothing be dumped. There is no reason to be doing this if she is a cool chick and she genuinely likes you- which she certainly does. You're just going to make yourself look like a phony eventually...even though you could have what it takes. This is where this forum gives shlt advice, stupid little tricks to get her in the sack.

Give her a break, call her to say happy birthday- what's the big frikken deal? Just my opinion and a word up to ya brotha.

 

[tamales]

Have you all had sex? As far as birthdays.. women take that sort of thing very seriously. I wouldn't wait until 11:30 p.m. A little late bro! I would do the opposite. Be the FIRST one to call and say, hey happy birthday. Leave it at that and a card perhaps. I mean if you like her I don't think wishing her well on her birthday or even doing something nice for her would be too much. Anything less, and frankly your a big fat ***. Especially, if the two of you are already sort of an item.

I mean don't shower her with attention. No need to go overboard with a card, flowers, candy and dinner... Eek.. But at least recognize it you sh*thead. I mean if not, you will seem like a big jerk and she will be pissed. Trust me. And probably, if you haven't laid her yet AND YOU FORGOT THIS DAY.. you can FORGETabout it anytime soon. I had this happen and I never even bothered to go out with the guy again and at first I really truly liked him. I mean there are exceptions to being aloof and cool but birthdays aren't one of them. Especially, not for girls. And the younger they are the more apt. they are to be pissed.

I say call & surprise her. Do something manly.. you know. A card will do and even better an early phone call saying, "just wanted to be the first one to wish you a happy birthday. Call her at 6 am the same day.." That is really all you have to do. I had a man just do that and apoligize for being busy the rest of the day. Sure he didn't buy me anything but his response was the most remembarable of any others. Heck I even got roses and he was still on my mind

Also, If you don't want to have dinner then say sorry I can't make dinner but hope you have a great day. I'll very busy but wanted you to know I remembered. Leave it at that.. That is the least case and then you should make it up to her later on.. A surprise dinner. You say meet me here, at X time and then say.. this darlin' is your belated birthday dinner. I have just been to busy. Have fun and leave it at that.

I don't know. May get flamed for this. But again, women and birthdays.. Oye Oye.. A card, a dinner out or whatever.. Maybe make her bring all the supplies for dinner. Tell her sure, it can be at her place, she cooks.. and just listen and be there for her on her special day. If you haven't gotten laid and acted all AFC and sent her a corny gift and flowers you will surely score.

I mean do just ONE nice thing, (prefareable, a little out of the ordinary). Just one thing is key. Not two, three or five. THat is being AFC.... But remembering is not. A big difference.

It's when you go overboard that we lose interest. But I still say on this special day even a DJ if they really like the girl should follow through on something. If not, you will be on her **** list. And she will be pissed. And you can forget about her unless she is so needy and desparate and insecure that you all she has left. And if that is the case, then why on earth would you want her?????

Good luck. Not sure if that helped at all. But I had the day from hell and beat It's PROM time and doing 800 makeovers on teenage girls who have bad skin would leave anyone frazzled. Cute tho.. to see all these HS girls get so excited about prom. God I am old!

Tamales

 

[Quick]

Once again, someone has phrased my sentiments in a slightly harsher way. I don't understand what some of you interpret as being a challenge. To me, the purpose of being challenging is so she's interested in you. By the time she's begging you to come over to her house, I'd say she's pretty interested. Now you want to play games on her birthday? Here's an idea. If you like her, why don't you give her a call as soon as you can and do something nice for her. I doubt she'll think you're a chump for not being challenging on her once-in-a-year-birthday.

 

[matius]

Yeah you know Quick, I just let a cool girl slip by me for those reasons, All I needed was one good f()ck up to get my head thinking a bit more. This kid needs to wake up before she is gone just the same.