helped a girl in a phone shop then saw her again after tried to no. close

[drift king]

i was in a phone shop today and this hot HB was in line in front of me.

i pulled away out of the line and i overheard her convo with the salesguy about her prob, when he went away to sort out her prob i started talking to her telling her how she could go online and get another sim rather than paying for 1 here.

she was telling me she needed it straight away cos she's going on holiday tomorrow, then i asked her where she was from spoke a bit of her language.. all be it i acted a bit afc saying stuff like 'i was going to tell u about this but u were busy..' (this was me pointing to the section with phones+sims together in a cheap package)

she thanked me for my help and we moved in close to each rather, a bit too close for strangers, like literally about to kiss cos she had more probs.

anyway after i bumped into her in another shop and asked her if she sorted it out ok.

then i quickly went into picking up material slightly negging her, i was in wrong frame of mind cos i was kicking myself for not opening properly when i had a chance in the phone shop so i was surprised at getting another chance.

i went for kill suggesting we go for drinks in her language but i did it in such an afc way saying 'does that make sense?' she goes 'yeah it means we should go for drinks' i go 'yeah thats what they say u should say if you're asking a girl out'

then i went for the 'so u married?' line she laughs, says 'no but i have a bf' for some reason i didn't follow up with my line of 'thats ok i'll still take u out sometime, im not the jealous type ' but cos i wasn't on form i did the most afc thing and said 'ok well i'd ask u for your number but u got a bf, so u on facebook?'

duhh.. so dumb, i should have said the other thing, but it completely slipped my mind. the rest of the convo was chit chat about where we're from, i didn't really do much in raising or lowering interest level.

she said something along the lines of that her bf would see it on her facebook, i go 'its ok i'm hidden under search' i think maybe she was letting me down gently.

you should always go for the number right? even if theres a bf?

and if that fails then go for the facebook for in the future cos at some point she will be single again?

i just feel like she'll just reject any add request or ignore any msg i send to her cos i didn't do anything to raise her IL apart from being insightful and speaking her language. go figure.

 

[chinwaggler]

What happened? And yeah always go for the number whatever.

 

[drift king]

i got her facebook that's it.

i didn't even attempt the no. close i just disqualified it to her cos she had a bf rather than letting her decide whether or not to give it.

in her eyes has any IL she may or may not have diminished?

 

[drift king]

reason i feel it's pointless is cos i did the same thing in a bar with a hired gun who was a masseuse giving out massages to clientle in the bar..

i judge her cos even tho i thought i was doing really well, removing the aspect of me paying for her massage service i neg'd kino'd everything.. she 'appeared' to be into me but wouldn't give up her number cos a)her manager was nearby and might see and b)she had a bf.. i compromised with the facebook and the b1tch refuses to accept my friend request/reply to msg. if i see her again i'll just blank her after saying hi.

i have lost all faith in the 'even if she has a bf u should still get the number regardless or the facebook' cos it seems like it's neither here nor there and just a way for her to ignore u after.

back to this particular scenario.. is it exactly the same thing? that getting her facebook means jack sh1t cos she'll just ignore you.

she had a bf, but i still should have no. closed or attempted.