help

[mvp21]

this girl jst gives her number i dont ask or anything so i call her up an talk for like 15 20 mins then she says ill call u later well she didnt so a few days later i call an shes like im so srry i forgot to program in ur number so im like it kool .she say that she had to go but would call this time an i havent her from her since yesterday what should i do? keep in mind i really like this girl she is an easy 9

 

[IronRice]

Well, Im thinking shes not that interested. If you forget to program someones number into your phone, on most cell phones theres the catagory of incoming and outgoing calls. Either she doesnt know her phone well, if its a cell phone, or she just doesnt want to talk to you.

 

[immrtlwun]

She's probably an AW. Just forget about her and move on to another girl.

 

[dannowillbookem]

Originally posted by mvp21
this girl jst gives her number i dont ask or anything so i call her up an talk for like 15 20 mins then she says ill call u later well she didnt so a few days later i call an shes like im so srry i forgot to program in ur number so im like it kool .she say that she had to go but would call this time an i havent her from her since yesterday what should i do? keep in mind i really like this girl she is an easy 9

ahhh!!!!!! *shoots self* dude i hate to say that was afc but THAT was afc.

why? let me list the reasons:

1. she gave you her number without asking and so u probably did something brillant like call the next day. bad. always wait 2-4, preferably 3-4.

2. you only call for dates. you dont call cause ur bored. thats a no no. u dont call "to talk". thats a no no. u call cause u want to go out tonight and she's coming. u dont ask. u tell her.

3. although i've seen guys on here who have done way worse than 15-20 minutes, thats still too long. Cut to the point (you're going to the movies with me tonight) and if she says no/she cant, say "okay, i g2g" and hangup. i have a pay as you go cell that i pay for, so its easy for me.

4. you let HER end the conversation. thats a no no. ur the guy. you should be saying when conversations end. you should be too busy to talk a whole fifteen minutes, and she should be left wanting more.

5. of course she forgot. your little fifteen minute call probably wasnt that memorable and you could have just shoved urself into the friends column.

WHAT TO DO:

k she's either forgotten again or doesnt want to call you...probably the second one. the best thing for you to do is call one day ahead of a date you wanna plan. follow the instructions above...ring ring hey ashley or whatever, i'm going to the movies tommorow night and you're coming. she might say she cant, in which case u can follow the afore mentoined okay g2g or u can ask her her excuse and tell her its really lame. u'r allowed to be a little flexible (okay how about saturday night) but she cancels out on you again then just end it with whatever g2g.

*phew* lotta typing