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HELP.Texted her after 2 weeks (beta)

Alpheta

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So yea like my previous thread stated, she sed she needed to decide between her mom and me.

Its been two weeks and i just needed closure as looking at my phone everyday is a headache.

So i got to the point and texted her asking what the situation is.

What can i do from here?
 

piranha45

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Never talk to her again.
 

Alpheta

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I know im done. I dont want her back. I wanted to end the anxiousness.

Is there anyway however, that i can at least walk off a bit dignified?
 

Mr_Maximus

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she cares less, take her no answer as the answer and walk,

Dont contact or speak to her ever again. Delete her from every communication medium you have.

Learn from this and don't let a women put you in a 'holding pattern' ever again.
 

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Alpheta said:
I know im done. I dont want her back. I wanted to end the anxiousness.

Is there anyway however, that i can at least walk off a bit dignified?
If you don't want her back then what was it you were anxious about?

Regarding your dignity, just forget about this episode and move on with your life. In order to forget you must stop thinking about it. In order to stop thinking about it you must focus on something else. In order to focus on something else you must do something. Anything.
 
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BlueAlpha1

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Alpheta said:
So yea like my previous thread stated, she sed she needed to decide between her mom and me.

Its been two weeks and i just needed closure as looking at my phone everyday is a headache.

So i got to the point and texted her asking what the situation is.

What can i do from here?
Once you start using words like closure, it's clear the problem is you, not hers. Closure is what you look for when you go to funerals, or reconciling with a long lost friend. When a woman dumps your azz, there's no closure. Become a super alpha and run into this girl by mistake in 2 years, and let her see you like that. Incidentally you'll get your closure then.
 

Alpheta

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Hey guys its funny because she is now begging me. Im ignoring her but she wants to be back and since ystrdai shes been constantly txting.

What shall i do?
 

piranha45

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Alot of one-itis guys claim to want help but are really just fishing for excuses... any excuse. Give him one, somebody, please! haha
 

pyros

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Its funy how OP asked for advice but succumbed anyway...

On the right hand he texted her and regreted it and then said he's done with her, but on the left hand he says she's begging to him. wtf?
 

AttackFormation

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pyros said:
Its funy how OP asked for advice but succumbed anyway...

On the right hand he texted her and regreted it and then said he's done with her, but on the left hand he says she's begging to him. wtf?
He acts like a woman. He is a weak man.
 

RangerMIke

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Its your ego, you need to put that in a box. It bothers you that you were rejected, never take this stuff serious, because it's not about you it's about HER attitude.

Men are all about competition and we don't like to lose... The best way to get over a loss is to start preparing for the next game. You need to go out and start dating other women.... you will get over her in no time.
 
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