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Don Juan
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Alright...January 1st, 2009 at about 2AM...I break up with my girlfriend of four rough months over the phone. I had just gotten back from her house a few hours ago for a New Year's Eve party her family was having.
She was practically crying when I left. The main reason I broke up with her? Her father. Every time we went out on a date, he would always require her to contact him about every 30 minutes be it a text or phone call. Also, when I would pick her up from her house, if he was home, he would sit me down and practically threaten me. It drove me up the wall. Especially with the keep-in-contact thing during the dates. It felt like he was breaking in between the relationship.
I know you got to have trust with the parents. But I tried. Unlike a lot of guys that I know that go for girls, I have more morals. I could have lost my virginity several times, but I still have it I strongly believe because of my moral fiber. I am not ashamed of that.
But her father...even if I was an angel, he would still threaten me out of lack of trust. Even though he at one point mentioned I was the best guy he's seen for his daughter as far as treating her, he literally threatened me about things I don't even want to mention.
I just couldn't take it anymore and I broke up with her because of this. It was way to much stress on my shoulders.
Since then I have dated several girls for brief periods of time. I have easily gotten over them. However, its been months and I still can't get over this girl. I keep thinking about her and everything. About how I want to get back with her for a LTR. But I can't. Because I seem to have a target on my head.
She still has feelings to, but because of this struggle, I and perhaps her, just don't know what to do. She's an adult and her father still checks in on her all the time. I just don't know what to do.
Any suggestions? Please?
She was practically crying when I left. The main reason I broke up with her? Her father. Every time we went out on a date, he would always require her to contact him about every 30 minutes be it a text or phone call. Also, when I would pick her up from her house, if he was home, he would sit me down and practically threaten me. It drove me up the wall. Especially with the keep-in-contact thing during the dates. It felt like he was breaking in between the relationship.
I know you got to have trust with the parents. But I tried. Unlike a lot of guys that I know that go for girls, I have more morals. I could have lost my virginity several times, but I still have it I strongly believe because of my moral fiber. I am not ashamed of that.
But her father...even if I was an angel, he would still threaten me out of lack of trust. Even though he at one point mentioned I was the best guy he's seen for his daughter as far as treating her, he literally threatened me about things I don't even want to mention.
I just couldn't take it anymore and I broke up with her because of this. It was way to much stress on my shoulders.
Since then I have dated several girls for brief periods of time. I have easily gotten over them. However, its been months and I still can't get over this girl. I keep thinking about her and everything. About how I want to get back with her for a LTR. But I can't. Because I seem to have a target on my head.
She still has feelings to, but because of this struggle, I and perhaps her, just don't know what to do. She's an adult and her father still checks in on her all the time. I just don't know what to do.
Any suggestions? Please?
