Help please.

[wtopher]

Hey all! This is a great forum with awesome advice from great contributors.
I need some advice in my situation with this girl that I really like.

I'm 15 years old, and in Grade 10. Never have been in a relationship. I met this girl snowboarding near Christmas and we really hit it off. Eventually a week later we meet at a movie and end up finding out we were interested in each other, even sharing a kiss. Ever since, we have seen each other a bit, walking, watching movies, even a brief makeout session. I talked with her a bit about if we were official? And she responded with wanting to get to know me and that her life was complicated a bit since she was moving schools, plus she still has to deal with her ex boyfriend.

They dated since September and broke up early December. However, last week, he messages me saying for me to stop hitting on his girl. He wants me to get out. I tell him that she's done with him and to get over it. He says they still see each other. Even included several empty threats (I'll hunt you down:trouble: )

I then talk to her, and she said that she never was seeing him ever since she started seeing me. She still makes me wait for the "TALK".

On Wednesday, we snowboarded, we made some kino contact, no kissing and a tight hug when we parted ways. She still sends <33 messages.

The ex still posts a bit on her Facebook wall. Random funny videos and notes that he writes.

I'm just really confused. Should I trust this girl? She isn't using me in any way. We message each other a lot, but today she didn't message me much. I just miss her now. Please help DJ's! What should I do?

xtopher.

 

[eaglez1177]

Do NOT trust this girl until you are completely 100% sure that her and her ex boyfriend are done. The fact that she says she hasnt seen her ex boyfriend yet her ex boyfriend says the complete opposite says that she could be lying to you.

Go to this girl, and tell her that NOTHING is going to progress with you two unless she completely cuts off all contact with her ex boyfriend.

 

[Stblack]

Obviously oneitus. I wouldn't be so harsh as to say "next" the girl, but you should look else where also. You're analyzing this too much. You're 15 dude. This "relationship" isn't going to last. None do at this age. Have fun and move on when it's over.

If you do take Eaglez advice, make sure you stick with it. Don't pansy out of it. She still talks to him, you walk.

 

[eaglez1177]

Obviously oneitus. I wouldn't be so harsh as to say "next" the girl, but you should look else where also. You're analyzing this too much. You're 15 dude. This "relationship" isn't going to last. None do at this age. Have fun and move on when it's over.

If you do take Eaglez advice, make sure you stick with it. Don't pansy out of it. She still talks to him, you walk.

Ya those are pretty much the two options. Either take my advice or take Stblack's advice.

 

[Analyzeit]

Tell her i aint gonna see ya till ya get of ya ex, if she doesn't then she liked him your out anyway if she ditches him right away your in the game easy as that really, you don't look bad at all and you get a good answer (but still do checks) if al else fails hunt him down and beat the **** outta him.... na jjs j

 

[It's-Me]

Hey all! This is a great forum with awesome advice from great contributors.
I need some advice in my situation with this girl that I really like.

I'm 15 years old, and in Grade 10. Never have been in a relationship. I met this girl snowboarding near Christmas and we really hit it off. Eventually a week later we meet at a movie and end up finding out we were interested in each other, even sharing a kiss. Ever since, we have seen each other a bit, walking, watching movies, even a brief makeout session. I talked with her a bit about if we were official? And she responded with wanting to get to know me and that her life was complicated a bit since she was moving schools, plus she still has to deal with her ex boyfriend.

They dated since September and broke up early December. However, last week, he messages me saying for me to stop hitting on his girl. He wants me to get out. I tell him that she's done with him and to get over it. He says they still see each other. Even included several empty threats (I'll hunt you down:trouble: )

I then talk to her, and she said that she never was seeing him ever since she started seeing me. She still makes me wait for the "TALK".

On Wednesday, we snowboarded, we made some kino contact, no kissing and a tight hug when we parted ways. She still sends <33 messages.

The ex still posts a bit on her Facebook wall. Random funny videos and notes that he writes.

I'm just really confused. Should I trust this girl? She isn't using me in any way. We message each other a lot, but today she didn't message me much. I just miss her now. Please help DJ's! What should I do?

xtopher.

Take control of the situation with the ex-boyfriend. Tell the girl he's being creepy and overprotective of her, and tell him to fvck off and mind his own business.

This recently happened to me where this girl's boyfriend was telling me to stop hitting on his girlfriend, and I took control of the situation and he just left me alone and I was still hitting on the girl. She even apologized for what her boyfriend did.

 

[wtopher]

Quick update.

Thanks for your advice btw all you. She cut off all contact, and she's kinda with me.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1544454#post1544454

This is what's happening now.

Thanks,
wtopher.