Help Please ASAP

[ARguy]

Broke up with my girlfriend about a month and a half ago. Happen to run into her yesterday in school and we just talked and stuff. That is all nothing more. This morning she texted me saying it was great seeing me yesterday.

How do I get the idea that I am open to friendship but nothing more without coming off as a jerk. She hurt me and she does not really deserve it I guess but yesterday went well like I did not get any urges to get back with her so it definitely got easier for me and stuff. We were only dating three months prior to the break up.

So I want to text her saying what I feel. As in open to friendship no more etc etc.

I am probably over thinking this though... I do not want to lead her on or anything.

 

[wilford]

I wouldn't say anything.
Let her tell you how she feels, let her be the one who worries, sends messages... keep busy keep moving

 

[Cashew]

yeah, I'd agree that you don't need to text her how you feel. If you want to be just friends, then simply act that way. Nothing else to it.

There's no need to come out and say it unless she does something to specifically provoke it like heavily coming on to you or asking you about it.

 

[mattbradp]

I wouldn't say anything.
Let her tell you how she feels, let her be the one who worries, sends messages... keep busy keep moving

+1

As a dude you do stuff and let the girl figure it out, it's the girl who's supposed to text and think about 'what's happening between us', not the other way around..

 

[Griever114]

Screw her. She broke it off, dont give her the time of day.