Help needed, and needed FAST!!!

jonte

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Hey guys,
A girl I know quite well who is very attractive told me earlier that she liked me but also said that she thinks that I would treat her as second best and would only ditch her if someone better comes along.

How should I deal with this, what should I say to make her think otherwise?????
 

Chewy Bagel

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She's going to think what she thinks, until proven wrong. She digs you man. If you're interested, then go for it. Follow the bible rules and you'll be fine.

Let us know!

CB
 

chlywly

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GO for it, dont say anything except that if she does nothing and doesnt explore any possibility with you then she will never know and would possibly pass up the opportunity which she looks for deep inside ;) apart from that DJ it up.
 

jonte

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shes a very shy girl
can ya's be more specific in the response I should give her?
 

Chewy Bagel

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It sounds like this girl has really opened herself up to you and is flapping in the wind. She's telling you she likes you, but she thinks you'll end up breaking her heart. She could have had a bad break up in the past that makes her think this. You can't change an insecure/low self-esteem girl's feelings in one day by telling her just the right thing. This is what I'd do: Tell her that you're going out tonight with some friend and ask if she wants to come with. If you feel really comfortable around her ask her if she'd like to go with you to [insert fun place here] tonight.

Did you read the bible, bro?
 

jonte

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have read bits and pieces, its a tad long!
thanks for the advice mate
 
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