Help me reach the next stage - After kissing.

[Bratt2230]

I have learned to do the following SOOO smoothly;

1* Approaching
2* Getting the number
3* Getting the kiss.

But as soon as i have gotten the kiss, things **** UP.
- in my earlier days 9-14 yrs, i was VERY unsocial, because i was obese, so i kind of isolated my self, and therefor did not learn to run a propper conversation. This has come to a HUGE disadvantage for me atm.

So i would like to get some GREAT Tips on runing a conversation, and how to sexually escalate, and go for the lay.
If anyone can give me some tips, i would appreciate it SOOO Much!

Thank you in advantage!

 

[amoka]

I take it you did not go through this before posting. I highly suggest you do. It is step-by-step guide that will help you achieve more after kissing... way more.

 

[joe henny]

4. escalate 5. get her alone 6 insert **** into ***** dur!

 

[Bratt2230]

Hmm..

The answers on Sosuave, have lately been very .. Useless.

THE DJ BIBLE, i have read alot, but i would like to get some more specifik answers, or atleast a link to something more specifik than the Bible..

 

[rushing dude 123]

Jeez bro you are stuck at this point?, after the kiss its pretty much all uphill from there. However seeing your age i am going to guess the girls you are dating are also in that range, so they might put quite a lot of importance on the next stages more than other girls.

Ok you have got through first base, next is second base lol. Try putting your arm around her being reallly close hold her hips as u kiss her, just turn on the heat a bit. Then after start slapping her ass when she says something stupid to you. This would be good if you are on a date in a isolated area or if you met the girl in a club/party it will just b fine to do on the spot.

Ok now your bodies should more or less be quite comfortable with eachother, so then next time your kissing her move down to her neck, shoulders, putting your hand on ass and hips as she gets into it. Then if you feel you can progress put ur hands on the side of her abdominals and slowly raise getting closer to her breast slowly, then on a highe make the strike ....wooo second base.

After this it gets even easier, when alone (maybe after u invited her back to yours to watch a movie or some crap like that), do all the above, but then start rubbing her thighs and near in between her legs and work your way there, this should get her sexually excited then after that just start escalating...fingers, removing clothing, getting hot, rubbing against eachother (wow this is turning me on haha jk). But yeah basically after that you go to JOES stage 6 and insert penis in vagina. WOOOO HOME RUN


Don't expect things to go exactlly to plan ^ this is just an example of a route you could take. You may have to switch things up a bit, you might get last minute resistance, you may get **** blockers (little brothers that don't know how to knock....) but just keep pursuing building up that tension trying new things to get her going and you will get there in the end.

 

[ENIGMA16]

I don't get it, when are you kissing her?

All you have to do is invite her over to your house for (insert bullsh!t reason here) and then just start making out with her and go from there.

Getting the date/kiss is the hard part. Why is that difficult?

 

[Bratt2230]

rushing dude 123; Hahahaha you made me LOL hard ..

- And to rushing dude 123 & Jlay87.

Kissing is SOOO easy, but as soon as i kiss them (This is all happening at bars, i have my local i love to go to) i just run out of things to say? .. it gets AKWARD, because i FREEZE, i do not know what to do.

Let me elaborate

Smoothly;

1* Approaching
2* Getting the number
3* Getting the kiss.

6* Escalating into sex when she is ALREDY at my place.

Missing;

4* The stuff After the kiss
5* Getting her home

SO I NEED THIS PART after the kiss, and until i get her home, this part is SOOO damn hard for me!! ARSH

 

[rushing dude 123]

Dude just escalate like i explained in my last post...maybe make the convo a bit sexual as well and make it fun/playful. Ask her for drinks at your place, to watch a movie or offer to give a massage (my favourite). If you have got her sexually interested enough you could even just tell her blatently you want to take her home for sex and she will come.

Bars are quite easy, you could be a stumbling idiot and still bring a girl home, so its not exactlly rocket science. If you keep the escalation up and try new stupid things and have a really good time yourself, she will probably have a good time as well and you should have no problem.

I can't really be too specific though bro because every situation and girl is different and i am not going to be sitting on your shoulder telling you what to do with every problem you come across. This is just my overview i just think you need to relax, kino and have fun. Everything else will play its part. Hell when you do that and you are the life of the party you may not even have to worry about asking chicks to come home, because they will ask you to be coming home with them.

 

[Bratt2230]

That is Sosuave!

Thank you once again, and no, you should not be sitting on my shoulder like a bird, whispering what my next move should be, but the things you told me until now are usefull.

- But actually, the last girl, this friday, i asked her "why dont you just spend the night at my place, insted of going all the way to XXX" (she was living 2 hours from the bar, i was like 5 min) She declined.

She was with 2 female friends, and said she had work the next day. I dunno if this was a BS excuse, but she did not go home with me.
- ANYWAY! i will test this stuff next friday/saturday, got a hell lot of homework to do !

 

[jtlancer]

I think you need to be more sexual while kissing.
Assuming deep kissing / tongues are involved then
begin pressing your body more into hers, lightly stroking the
sides of her body with your hands. Move to the neck for a while.
I've had women orgasm just from the right kind of neck stimulation.
They also love to feel your muscles brushing their breasts so
move your body and hips. Yes this is all while just kissing -- you are
preparing them mentally for what is to ***. Grab them, spin them
around and get the neck from behind.

 

[Bratt2230]

I will try that as well, But Seriously, i think i ****ed it up at the DanceFloor, i cannot dance even if my life depended on it.. i SUCK at dancing, have never danced before.. i guess ill have to learn this too ..

- But then again, she kissed me goodby at the end? So i guess that is a good sign :b?