Help Me Get Over This B#tch!!!!

[soulforge]

hello guys

i recently made a post on here, regarding a recent break up from my girlfriend, please read for some background information

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207175


it's been a few weeks since the break up now & i have been in strict no contact since..

recently i am starting to feel a lot of anger towards her & some anger towards myself for putting up with crap from this woman.

i have a few questions that i would like your opinions on.


firstly i now realize i only put up with crap from her, because she was attractive & the sex was great... big mistake

my question is, if a really hot woman fell in love with you, and you fell in love with her.. but once she realizes she has you, she turns into a disrespectful selfish b'tch?

would you dump her, knowing that more than likely you will not manage to get another woman this hot again? would you still get rid of her?


in the end, it was me who dumped her sorry ass... but i am pretty certain she will be able to replace me pretty soon, if not has done so already

i feel like i am moving on now, but i still feel angry with myself for letting this woman get away with so much crap... i put up with some serious bul**** from this tramp... some days i feel like ringing her & letting her know what a low life she is (I WOULD NEVER DO THIS THO) LOL


i must point out.. i am 37 years old, with no kids... she is 46 years old with 4 kids aged 8, 15, 16, 19

she is a single mother who i met on pof... WHAT THE FU'K WAS I THINKING!

 

[Bagofnuts]

We all made bad choices in our lives
I dont have great advice
All i can say is u really need to suck it up and forget this *****
I know its hard. One day at a time
All the best

 

[SirFratserlot]

Time is your best friend. I just got over a case of oneitis, but still think about the girl a lot.

 

[Jariel]

I'm going through such a similar situation to you mate and I feel your pain: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=207895

One thing that should give you comfort is that you eventually stood up for yourself, dumped her and saved yourself a lot worse. I, on the other hand, stuck it out and she ended up cheating on me basically, looking for other guys while stringing me along.

There's no pain quite like that and the hate you direct at yourself is intense and really shakes your faith in humanity.

I too wanted to tell her what I thought of her, how angry I was. I even wanted to threaten her, put a curse on her (she believes that crap) or seek revenge, but there is still a part of my rational mind that has control and that remembers everything I've learned here and I know that the best thing I can do at this stage is show that I'm not fazed by it and move on with my dignity.

Trust me mate, you want to get out of this situation with her. She's trash and will drag you down with her if you allow it. Don't do what I did and keep making excuses for her and trying to justify being with her. Listen to your head and save yourself!