Help! I'm a dancing monkey!

[wanderlust420]

Hi all, I've come to the harsh realization that when I go out, I am all fun/"woo" and no intent.

Last night I was at a bar and was dancing with the off-duty waitresses which was a lot of fun, but in the end left with nothing. No #s, nada.

I need quick help. Any words of advice or kicks in the ass are very much welcomed.

From what I can gather, my issues are incorporating hot eye contact and intent into my usual fun/"woo!" game.

Anyone that can relate???

:woo:

 

[Dragon]

I can also relate. What Noob said is right. I would also add to that:
- start touching a lot (huggung, kissing on cheek, etc)
- add some ****iness: (i.e. "If you want to keep dancing with me, you have to buy me a drink")

 

[doubledown11]

ABC

Always Be Closing

 

[wanderlust420]

I should also add in the issue with isolation - the venue was a small area in front of the bar, the lights had been turned on, and the group was a bunch of co-workers.

I know this shouldn't make a huge difference, and it sounds like I'm just making excuses - but I feel things would have been better in a dark, open club, for example.

...but I'm still a wussy for not getting any digits, especially after at one point, one of the waitresses was bending me over and slapping my ass...(!)

I need a piano dropped on my head.