Help, I only have one dance class left, and so many pretty ladies...

doubledown11

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So I'm trying not to sound like a complete perv, that's not what it's all about.

I've got one more latin dancing class. What is great about this class is I stand there and dance with several different girls every class, they keep rotating.

It's great, other than the inability to speak and dance at the same time. :-/

Anyway, I've only got one more class. I haven't gotten any numbers... (I've always been bad at this)

What should I do? It would be kind of screwed up for me to ask every girl I dance with for her number, and it would also be clumsy to track down the different girls in the hallway, in speedy skeezy fashion and get as many numbers as I can.

I need some advice here. I know I need help with positive thinking and expectation first, but I've only got one class left, and I'd like to get to know at least one of these girls.

Thanks.

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iqqi

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Here's what you do, Slick.

Announce to the class that you are throwing a latin Valentine's Day party at some club that's hot, with a few friends. Get everyone's #!

Then later you can call all the ones that you are interested in, tell them its cancelled, but you still would love to see them.

;)
 

j0n024

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...wow a Valentines day party .....at a club...hahahahahahahahahaha.Wow that sounds so pathetic ohhh sh1t you just made me laugh so much iqqi hahahahahah. Ohh fvck that was funny.

The problem I see with that whole "Party" (Not on Valentines) is that I think most girls would rather see you at the party then give you their number at the dance, I think you should dance with a couple of women...get a number while dancing and when you dance with another girl ask her on a day date maybe after class and then get the number, go to a diff girl get the number and then go to another girl and ask her out tonight.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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iqqi said:
Here's what you do, Slick.

Announce to the class that you are throwing a latin Valentine's Day party at some club that's hot, with a few friends. Get everyone's #!

Then later you can call all the ones that you are interested in, tell them its cancelled, but you still would love to see them.

;)
Thats not a bad idea.

I would just go up to the selected girls you like. Tell them this is your last day here and you would like to get together with them. If they agree ask for their number and go from there.
 

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Honestly? You've left it too late, doubledown. And even if you hadn't, you're not going to get all their numbers anyway. Women talk - and the women at the dance class will talk to each other. If they find out you've been getting all of their numbers, then none of them will date you. Why should they? You're clearly a 'player', and they won't feel special.

Here's what you do: get ONE of their numbers on the last day. Pick your favourite, tell her that you want to stay in touch, and get her number. Tell her you'd like to meet up sometime, and is she free next Friday evening?

Good luck.
 

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