Help I don't have a "SMILE"...

deltoro86

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I have a smirk and a sort of a grin but not a smile. I just look like one of those devilish men kinda like "sawyer" from lost. The only time I smile is when I'm laughing or running/exercising.
 

Kevin Feng

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I have the exact same problem, you can use this fact to your advantage, whenever I'm just standing around idly, my face is very neutral and I actually a little pissed off.

People always ask me what's wrong with me when I'm not interacting, anyways, this forces me to get into set and engage people, then I'll start making different facial expressions.

Plus, you're out in a night club, force a smile if you have to, I hate forcing it, I'd rather just feel organic about it but that means I need to be in set.

Always be in set, that will help your game and alleviate this problem.

-Kevin
 

djinhell

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urgh...what do you want people to say!?

of course you have a smile...its not something to analyse or fake!!

just be natural with it.

Dj In Hell
 

daygameguy

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You have a smile. But it will not come out unless you actually feel the happy state.

You don't need to have a C shaped male model smile. Any smile that comes from a true inner state of happiness appears far more attractive than the cover of a magazine, only because it is GENUINE.
 

sanoj

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daygameguy said:
You have a smile. But it will not come out unless you actually feel the happy state.

You don't need to have a C shaped male model smile. Any smile that comes from a true inner state of happiness appears far more attractive than the cover of a magazine, only because it is GENUINE.
So fvcking true! Good body language is way underrated, and for me it comes naturally when I am in this inner state of happiness.

Just a confident smile and getting caught looking have made girls approaching me and offering me their number without any work from me.

It must be one of the greatest feelings in the world, entering a club, feeling like a king, not caring what other people think of you and know you are in this happy state.

Too bad all the nights out arent like that ;)
 
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