LinkinParkROX
Don Juan
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So I've become more or less a Don Juan since I first joined SoSuave 3 years ago. I've had my fair share of women and can quite possibly have any one I want. I especially use Anti-Dump's Machine on all my conquests. It really does help.
Lately though, I've grown attached to a woman I speak to quite often – just not in person. Texts, Facebook, Skype. She's a virgin, never kissed a man before, doesn't even know what attraction feels like. Now, I know she's into me because all her facebook/twitter statuses are about us. She even directly told me that a majority of her tweets are about me. Tweets like "I wait and wait for you to make me smile everyday. Can't wait to talk to you tonight, my hero!" Also, all her tweets are about relationships and boyfriends and girlfriends. Moreover, if she can't reach me on facebook, she texts me on my phone. All the IOIs are there.
The thing is, I feel like a total failure. I feel like I'm friendzoned. After ALL the women I've bedded, after ALL the techniques/strategies/guides I've followed, after developing SOLID INNER GAME and becoming the alpha, none of it works with this woman. In terms of success, I'm quite successful. I've got a good job, I don't mean to sound proud, but I'm loaded, and everyone wishes they were me. I'm not trying to look cool here, this is a fact. People recognise me in public places when I go out. My job involves a lot of media exposure. I'm a bit of a celebrity where I live. In spite of this, I can't seem to close this girl! I've tried and succeeded with others, but not this one!
We see each other every week because we go to the same weekly parties with about 100 people, but I've been on 1 "date" with her that she doesn't think of as a date because she's never been on one. I kino'd her but couldn't escalate because I've never dealt with a virgin before and she wasn't too receptive and reciprocal. She comes from a conservative background. I'm pretty sure I'm friendzoned. The course of action I plan on taking that I've learned from the years I've been DJing is to cut contact with her and basically next her. I mean, we rarely ever go out anyway. I'll still see her at every weekend party every friday night, though. If the closest we'll ever get to kino and real dates are video chats on Skype, what's the point? It's unhealthy and unnecessary attraction for both of us and the best thing to do seems, at this point, to be to end things.
This has been especially hard today, as day 1 of no contact. She has messaged me dozens of times on facebook today asking where I am, if I'll make her day, and sent me cute videos. Since I didn't respond, she texted me on my phone asking if I was busy. I NC'd again, and had her finally message me saying "I guess my day won't get made today. I hope you had a good day!
I actually had a lot I wanted to talk to you about. But oh well, tomorrow night I suppose!" To which I still didn't reply. For some background, we've been video chatting on Skype for upwards of 4 hours almost every day for the past 2 or more weeks. I'm totally friendzoned. With one-itis. This sucks.
Which brings me to the actual problem: I want this girl. I want her bad. I mean, attractive virgin. Not a 10, but that doesn't matter that much to me. I don't know what course of action to take from here. The way I see it, I could either:
Lately though, I've grown attached to a woman I speak to quite often – just not in person. Texts, Facebook, Skype. She's a virgin, never kissed a man before, doesn't even know what attraction feels like. Now, I know she's into me because all her facebook/twitter statuses are about us. She even directly told me that a majority of her tweets are about me. Tweets like "I wait and wait for you to make me smile everyday. Can't wait to talk to you tonight, my hero!" Also, all her tweets are about relationships and boyfriends and girlfriends. Moreover, if she can't reach me on facebook, she texts me on my phone. All the IOIs are there.
The thing is, I feel like a total failure. I feel like I'm friendzoned. After ALL the women I've bedded, after ALL the techniques/strategies/guides I've followed, after developing SOLID INNER GAME and becoming the alpha, none of it works with this woman. In terms of success, I'm quite successful. I've got a good job, I don't mean to sound proud, but I'm loaded, and everyone wishes they were me. I'm not trying to look cool here, this is a fact. People recognise me in public places when I go out. My job involves a lot of media exposure. I'm a bit of a celebrity where I live. In spite of this, I can't seem to close this girl! I've tried and succeeded with others, but not this one!
We see each other every week because we go to the same weekly parties with about 100 people, but I've been on 1 "date" with her that she doesn't think of as a date because she's never been on one. I kino'd her but couldn't escalate because I've never dealt with a virgin before and she wasn't too receptive and reciprocal. She comes from a conservative background. I'm pretty sure I'm friendzoned. The course of action I plan on taking that I've learned from the years I've been DJing is to cut contact with her and basically next her. I mean, we rarely ever go out anyway. I'll still see her at every weekend party every friday night, though. If the closest we'll ever get to kino and real dates are video chats on Skype, what's the point? It's unhealthy and unnecessary attraction for both of us and the best thing to do seems, at this point, to be to end things.
This has been especially hard today, as day 1 of no contact. She has messaged me dozens of times on facebook today asking where I am, if I'll make her day, and sent me cute videos. Since I didn't respond, she texted me on my phone asking if I was busy. I NC'd again, and had her finally message me saying "I guess my day won't get made today. I hope you had a good day!
I actually had a lot I wanted to talk to you about. But oh well, tomorrow night I suppose!" To which I still didn't reply. For some background, we've been video chatting on Skype for upwards of 4 hours almost every day for the past 2 or more weeks. I'm totally friendzoned. With one-itis. This sucks.Which brings me to the actual problem: I want this girl. I want her bad. I mean, attractive virgin. Not a 10, but that doesn't matter that much to me. I don't know what course of action to take from here. The way I see it, I could either:
- NC her until we're strangers/burn the bridge.
- Message her saying I'll be really busy for the near future and unable to talk.
- Talk to her only at the weekly parties and escalate kino upto a k-close and take it from there.
- Tell her the amount of time I spend with her is not normal among friends, but instead is something I reserve only for girlfriends. Friends don't spend >4 hours on Skype. If she wants a friend, she'll get a friend. After which I'd walk away like a boss. If she stops me, I k-close her without a word. I think this might work. Thoughts?
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