I would like some help and/or advice on how to deal with this current situation. This girl I recently met at the gym I asked to take out to dinner to which she not only said yes but seemed very eager to let me take her out. When I mentioned that I was glad she said yes she even said that she was glad I asked. Then when the day came she doesn't respond to my texts, of which I sent only three btw... 1. To tell what restaurant I wanted to go to and to ask if she wanted me to pick her up 2. Which I sent many hours later after she did not respond asking simply "are we still on for tonight or no?" 3. The final text simply saying that I was still interested in taking her out to dinner sometime and saying that I might have to bug her a little bit until she said no.
None of these received a response of any kind and the "delivered" box is still under the last one. The only thing I can think is that my first text I sent too early in the day which maybe made me look too eager, tbh I was just trying to plan out my day, also probably a turnoff. Anyway, obviously there isn't going to be a logical explanation I was just curious how more mature and experienced members would recommend proceeding. This is not the only girl I have on my agenda so I have no problem "nexting" her trust me but at the same time she seemed ready to go when I last talked to her and when I explained that I was going to bug her a bit until she gave an official "no" she said nothing. Which technically isn't no.
Current plan is to wait until the end of the week or into next week and ask to take her to dinner again. If nothing happens maybe repeat. Like I said I know other women so it's not hard to wait but what would be optimal in terms of timing do you think? Or rather, simply how can you be confidently persistent without being desperate?
None of these received a response of any kind and the "delivered" box is still under the last one. The only thing I can think is that my first text I sent too early in the day which maybe made me look too eager, tbh I was just trying to plan out my day, also probably a turnoff. Anyway, obviously there isn't going to be a logical explanation I was just curious how more mature and experienced members would recommend proceeding. This is not the only girl I have on my agenda so I have no problem "nexting" her trust me but at the same time she seemed ready to go when I last talked to her and when I explained that I was going to bug her a bit until she gave an official "no" she said nothing. Which technically isn't no.
Current plan is to wait until the end of the week or into next week and ask to take her to dinner again. If nothing happens maybe repeat. Like I said I know other women so it's not hard to wait but what would be optimal in terms of timing do you think? Or rather, simply how can you be confidently persistent without being desperate?
