Hello everyone,
please keep reading my mini novel haha.
I will start with a background of myself, because I am not sure if any of you work as a trades person.
My Birth name is Zed, I am a 20 year old living in Edmonton, Alberta, and I work as a 3rd year apprentice crane operator for a large crane company. I did not graduate high school, mostly because I was too immature to understand that I would need to have a diploma later on in my life. I got excellent grades and I dropped out in the last month of my senior year. I then began working in the oil field in northern Alberta and British Columbia. Now that I am almost a journeyman, I have recently been put on jobs closer to where I live in edmonton, and I work five or six days a week for ten hours a day. I make more than enough money to be comfortable and I am happy with my quality of life.
During high school, i think due to the fact that i am genetically blessed had a lot to do with it (6'2, blonde, strong features) I was very successful with the girls I went to school with, and some from other towns as well. My best friend and I had a lot of fun.
I have been dating a very nice 21 year old woman, an HB8 for the past year and a couple months. She is a waitress going to school for accounting. During our relationship, we got along very well and were happy together and did not cheat on one another. Three months ago we dicovered that the IUD birth control she was using had failed and we were expecting a child on February 4th 2013, and we decided to keep him. A couple months ago, due to the fact that I was out of town working for 21+ days per month, we started to realize that we did not know each other as well as we thought and mutually decided to not live together any more and to take some time to grow as individuals in order to be good parents for our child.
The situation as it stands now is that we have separate homes and continue to be "in a relationship". My feelings as far as that goes are as follows.
I would like to see myself eventually getting married to this girl, and so would she.
I do feel like I have to grow and change and keep pushing my life forward as well as my career, because I would like to attend a university and get an engineering degree because of my background in heavy lifting/crane work.
I feel as though she needs to graduate from college and move ahead with her career and life, as well as actively growing as a person.
I would like to pursue other women because I feel that I have not had enough time to enjoy my age and all the freedoms most people my age have.
I don't drink excessively, and rarely get drunk, although I enjoy having a couple drinks. mostly because I was always chasing the girls in high school and before I met HB8, and I always believed that being able to pick up women Was more important that being floor licking drunk haha. On a more serious note, I have very little interest in going to clubs or bars, mostly because Edmonton doesn't seem to have any clubs worth the time of day for people my age. I am intersted in WOMEN, not immature girls, ranging from 20-26ish in age, and because of that I think I always have to be on my game in order to compete with the older men associated with these women. I have a pretty good game, although I struggle sometimes, depending on the situation, with holding conversation with these types of women. I was hoping that you guys could give me some DETAILED pointers and tips on all aspects of opening and closing with older women, because it's not an area I am overly familiar with.
Thanks for your replys in advance boys, I hope I have given you sufficient info to guide me a little bit!
please keep reading my mini novel haha.
I will start with a background of myself, because I am not sure if any of you work as a trades person.
My Birth name is Zed, I am a 20 year old living in Edmonton, Alberta, and I work as a 3rd year apprentice crane operator for a large crane company. I did not graduate high school, mostly because I was too immature to understand that I would need to have a diploma later on in my life. I got excellent grades and I dropped out in the last month of my senior year. I then began working in the oil field in northern Alberta and British Columbia. Now that I am almost a journeyman, I have recently been put on jobs closer to where I live in edmonton, and I work five or six days a week for ten hours a day. I make more than enough money to be comfortable and I am happy with my quality of life.
During high school, i think due to the fact that i am genetically blessed had a lot to do with it (6'2, blonde, strong features) I was very successful with the girls I went to school with, and some from other towns as well. My best friend and I had a lot of fun.
I have been dating a very nice 21 year old woman, an HB8 for the past year and a couple months. She is a waitress going to school for accounting. During our relationship, we got along very well and were happy together and did not cheat on one another. Three months ago we dicovered that the IUD birth control she was using had failed and we were expecting a child on February 4th 2013, and we decided to keep him. A couple months ago, due to the fact that I was out of town working for 21+ days per month, we started to realize that we did not know each other as well as we thought and mutually decided to not live together any more and to take some time to grow as individuals in order to be good parents for our child.
The situation as it stands now is that we have separate homes and continue to be "in a relationship". My feelings as far as that goes are as follows.
I would like to see myself eventually getting married to this girl, and so would she.
I do feel like I have to grow and change and keep pushing my life forward as well as my career, because I would like to attend a university and get an engineering degree because of my background in heavy lifting/crane work.
I feel as though she needs to graduate from college and move ahead with her career and life, as well as actively growing as a person.
I would like to pursue other women because I feel that I have not had enough time to enjoy my age and all the freedoms most people my age have.
I don't drink excessively, and rarely get drunk, although I enjoy having a couple drinks. mostly because I was always chasing the girls in high school and before I met HB8, and I always believed that being able to pick up women Was more important that being floor licking drunk haha. On a more serious note, I have very little interest in going to clubs or bars, mostly because Edmonton doesn't seem to have any clubs worth the time of day for people my age. I am intersted in WOMEN, not immature girls, ranging from 20-26ish in age, and because of that I think I always have to be on my game in order to compete with the older men associated with these women. I have a pretty good game, although I struggle sometimes, depending on the situation, with holding conversation with these types of women. I was hoping that you guys could give me some DETAILED pointers and tips on all aspects of opening and closing with older women, because it's not an area I am overly familiar with.
Thanks for your replys in advance boys, I hope I have given you sufficient info to guide me a little bit!