Help a Brother out

[stonefromnyc]

whats going on people I have a major dilemma I'm trying to get through right here. I have no problem approaching girls in the street but for some reason they always seem to get kind of intimidated or whatever and I'm never come off like I'm gonna hurt somebody or something. But I"m Shaved(head) probably like 5'10 about 200 and they seem scared. So I did alittle internet aol experiment where I put my picture and try and speak to some girls just to test it out and I always get the same 2 responses. Its either some chick wants to **** me or she doesn't write back to me after I send the pic so I say aight cool. Then I ask some girls online about my pic and tell me what they think they all say I look like I just came back home from prison. So that hit me like thats what the girls in the street are probably thinking now what I"m not gonna stop shaving or working out for ass but something's gotta give. Now the girls I'm talking about are black just like me so most would say that they would like a dude who resembles a "thug" or whatever but naw they only want them skinny pretty boy dudes with no muscles or nothing. So all I'm basically asking is everybody I don't care what nationality you are maybe you had a similar experience as a bodybuilder or a boxer where chicks would be intimidated by you what did you do?? Let me know I'm open minded right now but just not to losing what I worked hard for (I lost 65 lbs of fat in 2 years) Oh yeah I see yall got a fitness forum fellas take zma after a hard workout its good for recovery but be aware of the dreams they be crazy. I'm out. Playas stay up and be cool.

 

[Scought]

Changin yourself for a girl is whack. If they cant handle it, thats their problem.

Just gotta be yourself, and know you are already the shshhhh..........

In your head you jsut gotta tell yourself. Who is this chick to front on me? Who else is she going to meet today thats tighter than me? Know what Im sayin....

YOu just gotta know you got it goin on. That's it. Just be genuine, but dont change yourself cause of it.

SOme will appreciate some wont, and those that wont, are foolin themselves.
No wardrobe, line, position will really change what you got goin on. They can help, but its more about just being like, I know what I;m abiout and i got my shshh together, so if she is gonna front on that, than peace to her anyways.

you are the man, who is gonna front on you. Thats the mind frame.

 

[p1aya]

Don't change your style! I'm a bodybuilder too and chix either love it or hate it! You're obviously approaching the wrong girls. Don't give in to the sh!t they say; just play your own game and you'll score in no time

 

[stonefromnyc]

thanks for the advice fellas. My fault I took so long to respond there was some good games on this weekend. But once again thanks alot for the words or encouragement and advice.

 

[So Many Ways]

It might have something to do with your body language. If you look angry and you approach a woman looking angry, they might get scared off. I've had that issue particularly. I'm not swole like you but I tend to look like angry a lot of the times and I have to conciously force myself not to look that way.

 

[MrCode]

Yeah stone I agree with the poster above me. Your body language and the look you have on your face can make a big difference in how people relate to you.

I'm white and not very built, but I used to walk around with this bad look on my face and let me tell you, it didn't do me any good.

If you take that style you got going and combine it with a fun, friendly personality (keep a smile on your face ), you will be beating b*tches off with a stick.

Peace and good luck.

 

[NRM]

Well, what kind of clothing do you wear? I know that you don't want to change just for some girls, but clothing is a superficial thing that everybody has to deal with. If nobody cared, we'd be all wearing togas or the least expensive articles of clothing that are just boring.

I dunno if you dress like you just came out of prison or if you're style is just whack. Besides that, all girls want different things. Most women don't look at big men and think they will be attacked by them, I think there might be something else. If you keep a smile on your face, I don't think they could think you're intimidating.