Hello I am new and I have a question?

[chanta76]

What if you are just ugly and girls won't give you time and day?
I mean I work-out so I 'm in shape. I have OK job and decent personality. But when it comes to picking up girls the first think they look at is your face. It is the first impression that counts. Forget about personality or how much money you have because the girl will never give you that chance if there is no initial attraction.
I think I am ugly(no I will not show my pic) but I accept that and I am fine with it.

But dating is tough. If you are ugly the bar scene is tough because it is all base on first impression. I tried online dating but once they see my pics I don't hear from them.

Any other place to meet girls ? advice ?

 

[tom121]

I am same as you, for now I am just trying to get clear of acne (damn 18 years old hormone ) plus all these freaking bumps in my face

 

[JT47319]

Verbal game. It's the only equalizer to good looks if you also don't have high value like money.

 

[DJStudent]

It is true that if you have a good looking face + body you get a natural boost of confidence which only few men ever get because they often think the way you do. I use to think like that with my pimpled out face and scrawny body.

Although I had virtually zero dates for the past two years, things started to turn out this year. Over the past two years I spent all those time working out my body and mind. Now I'm dating 4 girls at the same time which is still new and challenging to me. Doesnt' always sound that great because it could also me drama x 4. Greater the reward the greater the risk.

Just keep on working on yourself. If you don't have dates yet, don't fret. Use that time wisely and build yourself up.

As for dating online and such, I think it's really hard to get anything out of it so I wouldn't even bother. You will have to meet that personal eventually so why not have your first impression a personal one.

 

[NewMan]

I don't know how old you are - I suspect your young.

What you will find is that as you get older it will get easier.

Right now, the only thing you can do is to keep growing as a person.

You will have to have great verbal game (as someone above mentioned) - if your not deep and do not have a good personality - you will find it hard going.

Keep hitting the gym and keep working on yourself.

 

[Pugsley_f5]

Bro deal with what you have and quit fricking worrying about it, Ive seen, fat, ugly, skinny, old guys ALL get with hot chicks, work with what you have, stop trying to be something ur not or a stereotype, If your confident as hell and your ugly in my opinion that gets them just as wet as if you are hot and have average to no confidence, work with what you have, if you are skinny, bulk up a bit for your own sake but you don't need it in their eyes if they are confident as hell, I just walked up to a HB8 last night and she was flattered that I was soo confident and I got her number, before this site, I would have thought I didnt have a cold chance in hell with her cause I wasn't chippendales super hot, I came to this site and realised that I chick will totally be into you if your confident as hell and average looks, quit projecting guys thinking in terms of attractiveness onto chicks, look with them just don't matter that much to them, there are many many other things that come before looks come in a chicks mind.

Whereas guys looks is the first, and if a chicks confident to me it doesn't do anything to me but cause me to say to myself, whopee thats cool.


BTW I am 5'11 270+ and definatley got some pudge to me, if it doesn't bother me that i'm that way it ususally doesn't bother them, theres a tip there.....

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