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BeNatural

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I'm new here, and I wanted to say hi.

I'm a 28 year old guy that has a very hard time with women. I went on 4 dates this year. Some years I have not gone on any.

I would like to tell you guys about my background, but I will save that for another time.

I spent a good five hours reading on this forum tonight. I certainly realized that I need to learn the lingo here. Where is a good list of definitions, and a thorough explanation of the 1 - 10 scale of beauty? Sure, a 10 is the best looking, but you guys seem to have an indepth understanding of the numbers and the lingo all together.
 

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# PUA - Pick-Up Artist: One who practices picking up women using trained, methodic skills.
# AFC - Average Frustrated Chump: Term coined by Ross Jeffries to describe normal beta males and their behaviors. Also thought of as "nice guys", or could just mean someone who's not trained in seduction. But typically AFCs are thought of as the wussy type of man.
# ASD - Anti-Slut Defense. The actions a girl uses to either rationalize her NOT being a slut (letting the guy know she's "taken" so that it is "his fault" when they hook up, etc.) or just a general defensive action taken by the woman so that she does not appear to be a slut to others. Often comes in the form of a **** test.
# GFTOW - Go **** Ten Other Women: Standard advice to get over a One-itis.
# NEXT - "Next", not an acronym, so much as a proper term. To completely forget about a woman you've been hung up on, and erase her from your life. See How to NEXT - by themuz.
# One-itis - To be obsessed with or hung up on one woman, typically leading to "tunnel vision" and not being open to considering new women. Can be used to refer to the girl being obsessed over, or to describe the emotional state a man has because of this women. e.g. "I talked to my one-itis today", or, "You have one-itis for that girl".
# LTR - "Long Term Relationship", or an established, typically exclusive relationship.

This is the closest I can find. It has several of the terms used here. There is a comprehensive list somewhere, but I dont know where it is. Have you read the DJ bible? The link is on the bottom of the screen. READ THAT FIRST. Especially the Pook articles. Try not to post any woman problems until you have read it. You'll find anything you post in the beginning is the same thing as most others, and you'll get the same responses, so please make an effort to not be redundant.

The following subjects shouldnt be posted about, cuz everyone else does, and they all have the same answer, (usually walking away and seeing other women):

-The girl just considers you a friend.
-How to 'win' her over/infatuated with ONE girl.
-What to do if she flakes or disrespects.
-Am I worthy of this amazing girl?

The board is flooded with these, and its the same thing over and over.

As far as the numbers go, its a matter of opinion. There is no such thing as a ten. Except maybe Jessica Alba in Sin City.

Oh, and welcome aboard.
 

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Welcome brother to the greatest forum of all!

Before you are going indepth and begin reading posts from other people we advice you one critical thing: READ THE DJ BIBLE

and here is where you can find it: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php

It is a book with knowledge you can attain by reading the forums for a year and puzzling everything out on your own. Or just in a couple of hours with a good understanding of how we opperate. Which i would like to call: Clarity.

Have fun while you are here and may you choose your path wisely!
 

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http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml

Heres a link. MANY of those terms are not used here. People have gotten totally carried away with abbreviations, but read that to understand what they mean, but be careful using them, as we might not understand.
 
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