hello everyone . can you help me solve a problem

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i took out a very nice looking 5-10 blonde latvian on two dates ,dinner the first . small party the second . i kissed her on the second date quickly, without asking .she was into it . we went to a coffee house afterwards and smoked a hookah . at some time in the night i commented on the waitress being pretty . later at her house to my supprise she said she hated and it turned her off i flirted in front of her .i got out of the car (truely supprised ) n looked her in the eye and said "you must really like me " kissed her again .told her i wanted to come up . we kissed and cuddled all night . i told her she was too special to have sex with the first night .

she doesnt seem to get over it even though i have appoligized and told her i was just being nice .the waitress was mediocre at best .


how can i get this girl to think of me /want me again /forgive me ??

she is latvian and seems kinda like a final type of gal , i was just about to write her and i thought i would ask advice here .

of the last three emails she reminds me of what a turn off it was and she cant get over it .

what should i do . tall blonde blue hottie . i want to date her more

any advice to help me regain her trust/lust ??????

hello from texas bytheway

 

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i think she wants to still date me ,but how do i get her to agrree to come out with me . movie ,dinnner ect . she still emails me . i just want to say the right thing . any specific euro hottie advice . thanx for the answer .

i know the dj bibl said to dump em ,but ive allready made it to second base ,two dates and didnt want to give up just yet .

any third date destinations suggestions??

i feel like if i send the right email ,we will go out again

cuz your right the appology did not work . thanx in advance

I wouldn't apologize, but I would use push-pull...continue to flirt in front of other women...ostensibly, she'll hate it, but inwardly, she'll likely be drawn to your confident stubborness. Too many guys are pvussies these days...women actually want a man who does what he wants...they want a man who is untamed and wild, a man whom they feel they need to transform.

Those dime-store romance novels are often authored by females, and, invariably, the plot pertains to a woman who is attracted to an untrained, wild-eyed, strong, confident cowboy type who does what he wants and whom she tries to reel in for a catch. Be that unreformed, wild-eyed cowboy guy.

Push-pull. Flirt with the waitress, and afterward tell your date she has the most beautiful eyes in the whole room.

Push-pull. Excuse yourself from the table and flirt with a waitress in plain sight of your date, then return to your table and ask her if she missed you because you were thinking about her the whole time.

 

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Update !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did what you guys said to a degree and just quit emailing her (i was writing everydayi ,big mistake huh??)

so after sometime had passed i wrote sayin I WAS GOING TO SEE A MOVIE THIS WEEKEND ! (leaving it a lil open cuz i know she works on the weekends )

i told her at the end to "*** down of her high horse " . i was thinking fuk it ,whats gonna happen the no date im allready not having .

she wrote back letting me saying she wanted to go ,but let me know she works all saturday night ,(im thinking so i wouldnt invite her on a day she couldnt come out ........it seems like she was setting me up so i could offer the right day )

she also asked me how i wa doing ,ect .


THANX GUYS ....NORMALLY I WOULD HAVE ALLREADY RUSHED TO WRITE HER BACK .BUT IM GONNA WAIT A BIT .

im definitely going to make fun of her when i see her , treat her as a friends im just knockin on .

question 1 . any special ways to close the date ?????
when i do write ??

question 2 any particular things to try to make fun of ,or that things which are off limits????/
she seems like she is self conscience about her heighth , eouro accent ,and small cute ass tits (girls gone wild style ,i like em , but you know girls )

any way im going to give her a hard time , make her laugh and flirt a lil then act busy like i dont even care . am i doing better ?:wave: :wave: