Height & Race

[sA x sKy]

What up SS?

I'm going to be a senior in high school and I still haven't had my first kiss yet. Pretty sad, I know. Two things that I know that is affecting my confidence is my height and race. Thanks to my wonderful parents (sarcasm), I am only 5"1. All my friends are taller than me and it feels terrible when I'm being towered over. Not to mention, I go to a school where 50% of the student body is white, 40% Asian, and 10% other. I fall under the Asian category but I'm from Southeast Asia - Bangladesh. Basically, I'm brown.

I don't know what to do. I'm disadvantaged from two important angles and I feel nothing is going to happen until college. High school seems like a dead end for me.

 

[m.brian]

i think height must matter in your personality,...
but not more than your talent,..

 

[EFFORT]

What up SS?

I'm going to be a senior in high school and I still haven't had my first kiss yet. Pretty sad, I know. Two things that I know that is affecting my confidence is my height and race. Thanks to my wonderful parents (sarcasm), I am only 5"1. All my friends are taller than me and it feels terrible when I'm being towered over. Not to mention, I go to a school where 50% of the student body is white, 40% Asian, and 10% other. I fall under the Asian category but I'm from Southeast Asia - Bangladesh. Basically, I'm brown.

I don't know what to do. I'm disadvantaged from two important angles and I feel nothing is going to happen until college. High school seems like a dead end for me.

You still have a lot of time left to grow. Other than that, yeah things won't be easy, you'll have to work smarter. Play the social status game hard. Find the most popular restaurant/sports bar type of place in your area and get a job there waiting tables. Try to get them to teach you how to bartend, it'll be a useful skill once your in college. Work this job for the year, you'll get a lot of social experience and save up some money.

Once in college find out what the most popular fraternity is and pledge asap. People may flame it here and may gripe about it to you in person saying stuff like "your buying friends blah blah". Ignore it all and pledge.

 

[AlexLefty]

Agreed with effort.
Also, it's more about confidence and how good you are with women than most people think. How do you think ugly mother fvckers always get with beautiful women? Because they're still confident and they are good with women nonetheless. Your height blah blah blah, just means that you'll have to be that much better with women. You'll have to be DJ good, twice as good and even five times as good as you average guy. You do this by reading the bible and all that stuff, and then going out and practicing.

But it all starts with confidence first, so if you don't have any, you need to get some to be successful. If you are lacking confidence and don't know how to raise it, just mssg/pm me, because i know some pretty easy techniques to help you a lot.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

To follow up on what Alex said - Action comes before confidence.

 

[AlexLefty]

To follow up on what Alex said - Action comes before confidence.

That is, actions to GET confidence.
Not actions to game a girl BEFORE confidence.
Basically it doesn't matter though, if you can get pvssy without confidence then sh1t, do it, but it might be tough.

But what i was saying is you need confidence before you will get pvssy, because without confidence how will you be able to approach.

Haha it really doesn't matter so though much adn now i'm just confusing myself

good luck

 

[eaglez1177]

You still have a lot of time left to grow. Other than that, yeah things won't be easy, you'll have to work smarter. Play the social status game hard. Find the most popular restaurant/sports bar type of place in your area and get a job there waiting tables. Try to get them to teach you how to bartend, it'll be a useful skill once your in college. Work this job for the year, you'll get a lot of social experience and save up some money.

Once in college find out what the most popular fraternity is and pledge asap. People may flame it here and may gripe about it to you in person saying stuff like "your buying friends blah blah". Ignore it all and pledge.

Actually im gonna be honest he really doesnt have a lot of time left to grow. If hes a senior in highschool that means hes probably around 18 years old, and most males stop growing around 21 years old. Plus, ages 18-21 consist of very very minimal growth, to the point where you may grow barely half an inch over three years. Very rarely are you going to see a noticeable growth once youre at the end stages of puberty. That being said, get used to the size your at now, cuz you probably wont get much bigger.

 

[Huffman]

I actually know a guy from Bangladesh and he's a cool guy. If your English is ok then you have no reason to doubt yourself. The rest is really in your head... it's all in your head.

I guess you gotta be strong and make the first step. Over time you will get used to the fact that others like&respect you, and that girls can be and are attracted to you. Once you've experienced that for a while, you'll see that you actually CAN have what you thought you couldn't.