He who hesitates...

snowdog

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Yes it is true. As i found out the hard way.

There was this chick, a friend of my sister. I was into her for a pretty long time. She just ended a pretty long relationship. When she was over at our house (we both still live with our parents, my college is a 10 minute bike-ride away) we always had this nice chit-chat and we could enjoy each other. My sister kept telling me that she wasn't feeling for another relationship at all and that i just should back off. Well, stupid enough i followed her advice. Too bad i read just a few days too late that women give terrible relationship advice.

And now, it turns out that's correct. Just two weeks later she has a relation with some dumbass meathead. Only because he did not wait patient for his turn. My day was ruined when i heard it and i ended up falling asleep infront of the tv after a bunch of glasses of Scotch that night. Oh well, another lesson learned. Lessons learned the hard way aren't forgotten fast. Always look on the bright side eh?
 

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Only because he did not wait patient for his turn. My day was ruined when i heard it and i ended up falling asleep infront of the tv after a bunch of glasses of Scotch that night.
don't get in the habit of drinking alone

Take comfort, brother. There are plenty of equally good fish in the sea.
 

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meathead is the rebound guy...she'll be on the market again shortly and then you strike...being the rebound guy is great if you want the poon but if you actually like the chick then no.
 

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Yeah, that guy is just a rebound. If you want a relationship, don't go after a girl that was recently just in a relationship.
Also... your sister may have known you were into this girl, and just told you the nice way that she wasn't interested in you.
 

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foomee said:
Yeah, that guy is just a rebound. If you want a relationship, don't go after a girl that was recently just in a relationship.
Also... your sister may have known you were into this girl, and just told you the nice way that she wasn't interested in you.

That's what I'm guessing. If you made it clear to your sister you liked her, time passed, and she told you that, chances are she's not interested, which happens.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Yea, good points guys. I guess i just should forget about it.

don't get in the habit of drinking alone
Yea, that's a good advice. I normally avoid it, but i was in a very crappy mood already and a drink usually fixes that. It's very rare i do it though, and i intent to keep it that way. It's the first step to alcoholism.
 
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