Well there's this hb9. Everyone goes crazy about her. Guys at my college were swarming her, people i know think she's mad hot, and anywhere we go someone hits on her. She's has a major princess complex, gold digger, and b1tchy attitude. Except never to me.
met her in a class that we were both in. Just from one glance at her i knew she was the super b1tchy im too good for you type. it was too much drama for me so i never bothered talking to her. We coincidentally found a mutual interest one day discussing what i missed in class and then we hit it off in a friendly way. I helped her with some resume work since i had free time and don't mind lending a hand and she apparently grew up with a lot of my child hood friends so i considered it like helping a friend. I kept a distance as to not be used or made a fool of like most girls would use guys.
one day she found out i was eating lunch and after she left campus drove all the way back to eat with me. as we met up another guy she knew was trying to holla at her. He's white and i'm asian and she's half so i thought it was pretty funny. she was polite enoguh to say hi back and basically just told him she was leaving. when the guy asked where she said none of his business and grabbed me and started walking. i thought it was pretty hot, how she knew how to tell guys to fvck off.
for the next 2 months she calls me weekly and texts me weekly just to talk and tell me about her job situation. I keep all conversations under a minute and keep the texts to a minimum just because i normally do those things and plus i still felt she had an ulterior motive and i wasn't so much interested in her since i felt like she wanted something.
i find out she has a boyfriend around this time when she adds me on facebook but i don't really care since i have nothing invested in her. Everything stays the same until we agree to hang out since school's out and she's about to leave the country in 3 weeks. I don't see anything wrong about it and see it as a friendly gesture, i have nothing invested and don't mind having a good time. We schedule a lunch and she reschedules for next week. I was kind of pissed because i decided to go out to eat with her for her sake so i decided if she flaked again it was off. so lunch the next week was good until the day of....
she tells me she already ate lunch and that we should go to dinner. I kind of get thinking that she might be interested but then this chick can pull any guy she wants so i just think that i'm over thinking things and just agree. 2 hours before we head out i hit the gym. when i get back home i notice a missed call. i decide to shower first before a call back and right when i get out of the shower i get a nother call. i pick up and she ask's me where we're going and what should she wear.
me:"Wear what you normally would wear going to a dinner."
hb9:"What are you wearing?"
me:"umm... clothes, i suggest you wear some too. but it is hot outside so if you don't want to i don't think you'll be cold."
hb9:"hahaha shut up. is a dress okay?"
me:"ya. just wear whatever your comfortable with. i just got home, i'll give u a call when im 10 minutes away."
we eat dinner blah blah blah.
i order some wine for myself she doesn't want any. i get carded and she makes some comment like hahaha why are u drinking wine...you own a club you probably are sick of that stuff....
once she says that gold digger comes right to my head.....
but i haven't given her one thing or bought her anything so i'm still half doubting this and just continue. dinner finishes and i pay, she offers but i decline and tell her next time.
as we get to the car i still think we're only friends since i have no interest. i wouldn't mind banging her but all the drama associated with her i didn't want to bother. it doesn't hurt to have a hb9 as a friend i thought. As i start driving away i ask her if she's ready to go home. she's says "let's go bowling!"
my initial reaction was
"What..Just me and you?"
as if i thought it was weird....since i did(she has a bf, i think we're friends, etc.)
she then says we can call up some friends and i say i'll call my cuz since we're mutual friends.
we start talking for a little bit and we about 10 mintues away from the bowling place and we both forget to call people. I call my cuz and he doesn't pick up and she suggest that we both go alone. I'm down.
we bowl and i'm a sweat machine and since i haven't been to the gym for a year and a half...(just got out of a bpd relationship and gained 40 pounds....lost 20 at that time though)
i went to the bathroom to wipe sweat off my face like 5 times and she never mentioned it which i thought was cool... if she did i wouldn't care anyway since i do sweat alot.
she tells me i should quit smoking. she pays for the bill since i paid for dinner she said.
we leave and i ask if she's ready to go home.
she said she wanted to visit her dad's shop to see if he was still there. he's there really late sometimes she said...(its 1am already)
we get there and he's obviously not there and then she ask's me.....
"want to come in?"
me:"why?"
"lets go make a shirt!"
once she said that i knew 100% it was a fvcking date. even though i knew it was a date i wasn't sure how interested she was.
since that day.....i thought she might have been an Attention ***** so i was still cautious.
She invited me to her family's july 4th event......i said maybe..
then i realized that her bf would probably be there if she said she was going to invite me.... she probably loves drama and wants her bf and i to meet each other... i decide last minute to not go and go work at the club instead.
turns out her relationship is long distance and her bf did not go.
she invited me out to another family event and i showed up. met all her sisters and family. they're all mad fine(sisters). we eat lunch a few times afterwards and her family even catches us eating lunch which they don't care. they actually like me since they know my family...(my family is pretty well known in the chinese community...some im assuming her family is telling her to stick to me)
truthfully i have no money. i take no money from my parents, i pay for all my bills and i'm broke now. she knows this.
i still distance myself from her since i've been very cautious to protect myself since my bpd relationship.
i keep thinking she wants something from me...money, attention, but not me.
we end up going out one more time before she leaves. we eat lunch, her parents stop by to pick up some food at the restaurant we're at and go home to eat. they see us and smile happily. after we're done, she suggest we get ice cream and we do. they ask's if i want to see a movie.
once again i get fvcking confused...but she's insists that i go and i finally agree. the movie doesn't start for an hour and a half so we stop by and visit her grandma.....
i felt like she was trying to pull some sh1t on me so i just stayed in the car. i didn't want her pulling the sentimental sh1t. she tells me to come in and it's rude in chinese culture not to say hi to elders so i go in and introduce myself again to her(met her at another event).
i don't feel like staying in the house that long so i go back to the car and wait. once i get into the car it finally hit me. i don't know if it was because i lost my grandmother a few years ago that was dear to me but once i got back in the car i felt different.
it was then i knew i had some feelings for her.
smacked myself a few times in the face to get myself to wake up.
we go to the movies and end up watching bruno.
she left 4 day's later. i calm myself down.
she goes on vacation to visit greece, her other nationality. its also a school trip where she takes classes and gets credits. her bf is there and i don't give a fvck.
she told me sh1t like he isn't allowed in her apartment and other sh1t like that(bs). i heard them fight on the phone a few times when we were out on a few dates.
we don't talk for 2 months. she gets back and we start going out again and i think nothing of it.
i go to my friends law school party. there was this fine hb9 that was korean that i knew was digging me but i didn't think it was the right time to pursue her so i just left her alone. i show up to pick up my boy and with the hb9 halfy and the hbkorean9 was there too. she tried to make small talk with me but my home girl c0ckblocked me to the point where the other girl just left me alone the whole night.
the hbK is one of those girls that knows she's fine and flaunts it but try's to act nice and ditzy.
HBK tries to talk to me but my homegirl just cuts her off. HBK then tries to pull a *****y type attitude and cuts her off again but my homegirl literally owns her in the face. she shuts up and stays away from me for the rest of the night. my home girl c0ckblocks that hbk every time.
anyway mad guys hit on both of them at the party, more on my friend than the hbk. home girl gives them one or two word answers and continues talking to me. its get's to the point where 3 guys try talking to her at once and i just get up and walk away for a drink and a smoke. i come back and she ask's why i leave her.
"you looked busy."
hb9:"don't ever do that to me again." she says in a joking way
i just smile at her.
we leave.
next week i head to school and bump into the korean girl and say hi.
she ask's how my girlfriend and i were.
i explain that it wasn't my girlfriend.
anyway this goes on for a while. we go to eat she pays sometimes and i pay sometimes. until she asks me to go to a club with her alone. we go, she get's drunk. she turn into this HUGE AW, bumps into 2 ex's, and act's like a girl i would never date. i was planning on making a move that night. she gave me no opportunity.
i ignored her for a week.
met her in a class that we were both in. Just from one glance at her i knew she was the super b1tchy im too good for you type. it was too much drama for me so i never bothered talking to her. We coincidentally found a mutual interest one day discussing what i missed in class and then we hit it off in a friendly way. I helped her with some resume work since i had free time and don't mind lending a hand and she apparently grew up with a lot of my child hood friends so i considered it like helping a friend. I kept a distance as to not be used or made a fool of like most girls would use guys.
one day she found out i was eating lunch and after she left campus drove all the way back to eat with me. as we met up another guy she knew was trying to holla at her. He's white and i'm asian and she's half so i thought it was pretty funny. she was polite enoguh to say hi back and basically just told him she was leaving. when the guy asked where she said none of his business and grabbed me and started walking. i thought it was pretty hot, how she knew how to tell guys to fvck off.
for the next 2 months she calls me weekly and texts me weekly just to talk and tell me about her job situation. I keep all conversations under a minute and keep the texts to a minimum just because i normally do those things and plus i still felt she had an ulterior motive and i wasn't so much interested in her since i felt like she wanted something.
i find out she has a boyfriend around this time when she adds me on facebook but i don't really care since i have nothing invested in her. Everything stays the same until we agree to hang out since school's out and she's about to leave the country in 3 weeks. I don't see anything wrong about it and see it as a friendly gesture, i have nothing invested and don't mind having a good time. We schedule a lunch and she reschedules for next week. I was kind of pissed because i decided to go out to eat with her for her sake so i decided if she flaked again it was off. so lunch the next week was good until the day of....
she tells me she already ate lunch and that we should go to dinner. I kind of get thinking that she might be interested but then this chick can pull any guy she wants so i just think that i'm over thinking things and just agree. 2 hours before we head out i hit the gym. when i get back home i notice a missed call. i decide to shower first before a call back and right when i get out of the shower i get a nother call. i pick up and she ask's me where we're going and what should she wear.
me:"Wear what you normally would wear going to a dinner."
hb9:"What are you wearing?"
me:"umm... clothes, i suggest you wear some too. but it is hot outside so if you don't want to i don't think you'll be cold."
hb9:"hahaha shut up. is a dress okay?"
me:"ya. just wear whatever your comfortable with. i just got home, i'll give u a call when im 10 minutes away."
we eat dinner blah blah blah.
i order some wine for myself she doesn't want any. i get carded and she makes some comment like hahaha why are u drinking wine...you own a club you probably are sick of that stuff....
once she says that gold digger comes right to my head.....
but i haven't given her one thing or bought her anything so i'm still half doubting this and just continue. dinner finishes and i pay, she offers but i decline and tell her next time.
as we get to the car i still think we're only friends since i have no interest. i wouldn't mind banging her but all the drama associated with her i didn't want to bother. it doesn't hurt to have a hb9 as a friend i thought. As i start driving away i ask her if she's ready to go home. she's says "let's go bowling!"
my initial reaction was
"What..Just me and you?"
as if i thought it was weird....since i did(she has a bf, i think we're friends, etc.)
she then says we can call up some friends and i say i'll call my cuz since we're mutual friends.
we start talking for a little bit and we about 10 mintues away from the bowling place and we both forget to call people. I call my cuz and he doesn't pick up and she suggest that we both go alone. I'm down.
we bowl and i'm a sweat machine and since i haven't been to the gym for a year and a half...(just got out of a bpd relationship and gained 40 pounds....lost 20 at that time though)
i went to the bathroom to wipe sweat off my face like 5 times and she never mentioned it which i thought was cool... if she did i wouldn't care anyway since i do sweat alot.
she tells me i should quit smoking. she pays for the bill since i paid for dinner she said.
we leave and i ask if she's ready to go home.
she said she wanted to visit her dad's shop to see if he was still there. he's there really late sometimes she said...(its 1am already)
we get there and he's obviously not there and then she ask's me.....
"want to come in?"
me:"why?"
"lets go make a shirt!"
once she said that i knew 100% it was a fvcking date. even though i knew it was a date i wasn't sure how interested she was.
since that day.....i thought she might have been an Attention ***** so i was still cautious.
She invited me to her family's july 4th event......i said maybe..
then i realized that her bf would probably be there if she said she was going to invite me.... she probably loves drama and wants her bf and i to meet each other... i decide last minute to not go and go work at the club instead.
turns out her relationship is long distance and her bf did not go.
she invited me out to another family event and i showed up. met all her sisters and family. they're all mad fine(sisters). we eat lunch a few times afterwards and her family even catches us eating lunch which they don't care. they actually like me since they know my family...(my family is pretty well known in the chinese community...some im assuming her family is telling her to stick to me)
truthfully i have no money. i take no money from my parents, i pay for all my bills and i'm broke now. she knows this.
i still distance myself from her since i've been very cautious to protect myself since my bpd relationship.
i keep thinking she wants something from me...money, attention, but not me.
we end up going out one more time before she leaves. we eat lunch, her parents stop by to pick up some food at the restaurant we're at and go home to eat. they see us and smile happily. after we're done, she suggest we get ice cream and we do. they ask's if i want to see a movie.
once again i get fvcking confused...but she's insists that i go and i finally agree. the movie doesn't start for an hour and a half so we stop by and visit her grandma.....
i felt like she was trying to pull some sh1t on me so i just stayed in the car. i didn't want her pulling the sentimental sh1t. she tells me to come in and it's rude in chinese culture not to say hi to elders so i go in and introduce myself again to her(met her at another event).
i don't feel like staying in the house that long so i go back to the car and wait. once i get into the car it finally hit me. i don't know if it was because i lost my grandmother a few years ago that was dear to me but once i got back in the car i felt different.
it was then i knew i had some feelings for her.
smacked myself a few times in the face to get myself to wake up.
we go to the movies and end up watching bruno.
she left 4 day's later. i calm myself down.
she goes on vacation to visit greece, her other nationality. its also a school trip where she takes classes and gets credits. her bf is there and i don't give a fvck.
she told me sh1t like he isn't allowed in her apartment and other sh1t like that(bs). i heard them fight on the phone a few times when we were out on a few dates.
we don't talk for 2 months. she gets back and we start going out again and i think nothing of it.
i go to my friends law school party. there was this fine hb9 that was korean that i knew was digging me but i didn't think it was the right time to pursue her so i just left her alone. i show up to pick up my boy and with the hb9 halfy and the hbkorean9 was there too. she tried to make small talk with me but my home girl c0ckblocked me to the point where the other girl just left me alone the whole night.
the hbK is one of those girls that knows she's fine and flaunts it but try's to act nice and ditzy.
HBK tries to talk to me but my homegirl just cuts her off. HBK then tries to pull a *****y type attitude and cuts her off again but my homegirl literally owns her in the face. she shuts up and stays away from me for the rest of the night. my home girl c0ckblocks that hbk every time.
anyway mad guys hit on both of them at the party, more on my friend than the hbk. home girl gives them one or two word answers and continues talking to me. its get's to the point where 3 guys try talking to her at once and i just get up and walk away for a drink and a smoke. i come back and she ask's why i leave her.
"you looked busy."
hb9:"don't ever do that to me again." she says in a joking way
i just smile at her.
we leave.
next week i head to school and bump into the korean girl and say hi.
she ask's how my girlfriend and i were.
i explain that it wasn't my girlfriend.
anyway this goes on for a while. we go to eat she pays sometimes and i pay sometimes. until she asks me to go to a club with her alone. we go, she get's drunk. she turn into this HUGE AW, bumps into 2 ex's, and act's like a girl i would never date. i was planning on making a move that night. she gave me no opportunity.
i ignored her for a week.
